The saddest and sorryest son of a bitch on Earth...

Got a loving girlfriend for the last 9 or ten years. Both got jobs and paid for our house till July of this year. Both got same hobbies or sort of - good communication.
I'm falling in love for a tv broadcasting girl which I know nothing about and everyday I live a dream about her - even when I'm awake. Sometimes I'd like to simulate my death so my wife would get everything and I could start over... How can I have a perfect life and be unhappy? It's like having all the aces and losing the poker game... I'm a loser alright...

 

I can SO relate.

Seriously...

 

If it's Leigh Chappellle, you've got bigger problems.

 

i feel sorry for your girlfriend, being unappreciated sucks

 

Honestly, no one cares.

 

id say your a oxygen thief,, ....

 

You should really tell your girlfriend that you feel this way... pretending is just so disrespectful and hurtful on so many levels. Why don't you think about her instead of yourself for a change.

 

wow


Friend is being serious for once

 

This is true. You are thinking this way because something you need from your gf/wife isn't being supplied. Talk to her about that and things will either be fixed with her, or you will choose to both move on. But either way, she needs to be aware of your feelings and needs.

 

man the metaphors for "your a asshole,,oh fuckin well" in this thread so far are great..

 

Way to kick somebody when he's down guys (buncha self-rightious fucktards).
Least he's being honest and at least he's only cheating on his udder-half in his head.

 

I didn't kick. I feel for the guy. I know there's more to it than he's just hot for someone else...

There's some soul searching that needs to be done.

 

I know, I was just taking to everybody who did.

 

you don't really love your girlfriend, she deserves someone who really loves her. If you want this weather girl then go after her but don't decieve your girlfriend. show some honesty at least.

 

Thanks for the replies - good or bad - they help me to think a little. Remember though that nothing is going on and that I don't know whatsoever about that other woman except that she works in the same town as where I live. I haven't left my girl or given a faintest clue of anything. Like a poster said, I'm doing some soul searching - I've even bought books on proverbs and citations to think, to try to find some logic or some deep thinking... Go on with the posts - you can be nice or mean as an ass but I read all!

Pierre.

 

Sometimes when meeting someone new they have something intriguing about them that makes them attractive. It's human nature to be attracted to people. What matters is you are being true to yourself and the person you are with. Soul searching and realizing what you have is what will either make your relationship or break it.

I've met people that I've been attracted to only because sometimes when meeting new people there is a freshness about them that is attractive. I'm communicating with someone I'm learning all new things about. Then I realize in my head that this is normal. I'm not flirting nor do I lead anyone on.

I know in my heart and in my head that my husband is the only man for me. He has given me a gift no other human being could possibly ever give me. I know I am right where I am supposed to be.

I wish you well with your Journey Friend.

 

I think you should stalk this girl for awhile...you may find that she is annoying in real life and wears granny panties...

 

mid life crisis...



maybee you should read a book written by a female to better understand it???

 

Quote: you may find that she is annoying in real life and wears granny panties...


This is how I attempt to kill crushes

Generally I'll find myself craving that honeymoon period with someone new....but I make myself realize its going to settle down after that no matter who I'm with.

That being said, maybe this is the right thing for you to do...sometimes things seem meant to come to an end.

Either way I'd recommend not being to hasty.

 

That is seriously a possibility.