Hi all. OK I am 32 years old, pretty successful, good looking, lots of friends, have fun in life. But for years I have wondered if I am gay. Something about it intrigues me. I mean, I like women, and have had sex with them many times. I have never had a gay experience. But, I must be honest, the thought of sucking a cock sort of turns me on, and, I dunno, I have this strange feeling deep inside, since I was a teenager, that, well, I am gay. Any thoughts?
Maybe defining yourself isn't what you need. You may be straight, bisexual, or gay...but it doesn't really matter all that much. If you want to fuck a guy, go for it. It doesn't make you gay. I hate to sound corny, but go with the flow.
Thanks. I guess one thing I like about being gay is the sense of community, so if I am gay, I actually want to be GAY! lol
Ha, I know what you mean. It is a support system. But I don't mind questions like this; we're here to help no matter what.
well I think that if you have slept with women and enjoyed it than you cant be gay. Ive been struggling with this aswell. I have descided to not care anymore. I will date men and women, and if I fall in love and stay with someone of the same sex or someone of the opposite sex, than that will be that. I don't care to label myself anything. Its too difficult. PLUS Im begining to think that if I am this unsure about my sexuality I must be bisexual. I've never heard of any gay people go back and forth so may times for the reasons that I do.
But, Senor Dali, I want to be part of a community. I am not bothered by labels if they are accurate and identify me with a supportive group. I guess that's why I am wondering. If I am gay, I want to go full force, no gay sex pun intended lol.
Let me know once you have a cock in your mouth. Take the cock out first then tell me. I bet you like it a lot! I know I do. That strange feeling that many of us have had inside since we were teens, is called lust. Gay Lust. Welcome to the family.
