I don't know how interesting this is to read, but it really fucked with me last night - what with being drunk and stoned. I was hanging out in my dorm room drinking and smoking with some people last night under the impression that my roommate would be gone for the night. He ended up coming home around 1:00 AM nearly in tears because some of his friends left him behind or something (he's weird like that). In addition to being mad about his friends, he was also pretty pissed to find some of his food missing and a room full of stoners and beer cans. So my friend's and I gradually left the room since it was clear that he was pissed and wanted to be alone. The whole situation wasn't bothering me at all until I realized that my pipe was missing. So I went back in my room to look for it, went door to door asking the others guys who were in there if they had it, and then went back to my room to search again. Fruitless in my efforts, I sat down at my desk in frustration wondering what could have possibly happened to my pipe (also known as drug paraphernalia). While combing my mind for possible places that it could be, I happened to look over at my roommate - who's is not cool, by the way - and noticed the unmistakable outline of my piece in his pocket. My legs instinctively walked me over to his desk and, before I knew it, I was easing my pipe out of his pocket with my hand. I've basically already repressed the memory of the verbal exchange that followed but, in short, he was almost certainly going to turn the pipe into our Hall Director and completely fuck me over in the process. Looks like the days of keeping marijuana in my room are over.:$
jus keep the heat down for a month or 2 man. then jus make sure you dont get caught, perhaps dont smoke in there or get a vape. I hope ya dont get caught man that would suck ass.
you need to have a long talk with this guy. He'll probably end up blackmailing you, anyway. It's best to work it out and gain mutual acceptance. Or if he doesn't buy it, learn to be more careful about where you put your stuff..
Nah dude, don't talk to him, file for a roommate change, get the fuck away from him. He's a child, obviously lashing out at you because of his other friends fucking him over. I'm curious, what kind of bullshit was dribbling out of his pie-eater as justification for this?
OMG that would piss me the fuck off. You should fuck with his head, like re arrange all his shit while hes gone and stuff.
Talking to someone is always the most logical thing to do, but I'd say this guy is not on the level where you can talk it out with him. You ever try talking things out with a child? It doesn't usually work, so apply the same principle here.
I honestly don't remember much of the exchange that we had after I retrieved my pipe. I do know that I asked if he was cool with me smoking and that he stopped and thought about it for what seemed like a long time (not a good sign) before eventually saying something to the effect of "yeah, I guess." He was also kind of defensive and immediately said "Just don't fuck with my shit" but I can't remember what I said or did to get him to say that; with the exception of his tool box, I never go near his stuff without asking. And it seems kind of strange that he would get that worked up over someone drinking a few cans of his Mountain Dew. In any case, I still haven't spoken to him since that night and I don't intend to. I'd prefer not to move out, but I might have to if he gets any stranger than he already is. In the meantime, I'm keeping my "supplies" elsewhere since I obviously can't trust this guy. Sucks that I have to put up with all this for the sake of protecting a once-per-week habit.
Its not clear. Were you and your friends partying in his space. Or are you in the kind of set up where everything is community space. If you were in his space, that might explain some of his anger. I spent almost a year with someone who could put up with my smoking, even though he didn't like it. Not fun. Put in for a room change. If it is granted, both of you will be happier. The end of the first semester is a common time for roomies to find out that they aren't suited to each other.
That sucks that you have a "safe" place to smoke, and that guy's messing it up. What kind of dorm is it anyway? I can't smoke in mine, because everything's packed together, but some of the more open dorms, or the ones on like 6th or 7th floor seem okay. Good luck with the roommate... that's the worst kind of thing to deal with at school! ~Nova
Somebody might have been sitting in a chair that's under his loft, but who cares? It's just a chair which was made for sitting on. That isn't grounds for pocketing my piece. The rooms in the dorm are all really close together, but everyone at my end of the hallway is cool with smoking. What's more, there's almost nobody down here in the first place because everyone but me has their own room. Also, the times when the RA's walk around are posted, so we work it around that. But there's still obvious risks involved and having to put up with this guy is not helping anyone's cause.
if u hate him.. just search on google 'how to annoy your roommate'... and im sure u can basically mentally break him down after a while.. or file for a change
Well, it's looking like he'll be moving out within the next week. I'm trying not to get my hopes up too high though.
