So...my boyfriend of two years and I pretty much just had our relationship end...and I Feel horrible. Its been on and off for a feew months now, but we had some really beautiful moments whilst it was all happening. He was my first long term boyfriend and I feel so strange now...I know its truly over this time because I cant totlaly bring myself to go back to him, as the relationship become mentally and physically abusive by the end. Fuck, I just feel so sad... Ways to cope, anyone?
the best remedy is to start something new. a book, a film, a music lesson, a dance lesson, a friendship, a cooking class, a poker game. Shuffle the furniture around in your room, get a new haircut, start looking at your daily life in terms of action.
its always hard after a tough break up. always. But it is important to bounce back and look back on your relationship in order to make a new one better. It is best to learn from it and move on. Im sure you wont have any trouble finding another love. It sounds like you are the "girl next door" type, and have a lot of things that guys look for that most girls probly do not have. Just try and be positive about things and i guarentee you will be fine sooner rather than later. Happy Trails! love
only time can help u here. u can't get over someone just like that, specially when this person meant something in ur life. Try to keep urself busy with stuff u like to do, go out with friends and have fun, dont stay home too long and stuff so u dont have time to think how much u miss him. You will get over him eventually, give it time and be strong.
wow i cant even imagine, but i guess starting something new really is the best thing for you right now.
Thanks very much for your posts. Im putting all my energy basically into moving forward and becoming a stronger, more beautiful person.. Im pretty excited about the future..and im not mad at all or upset about th epast...i think ive let it go Right after I went to my aunt's and helped take care of her babies...so alls well_ PEace
Heh, glad to hear you're managing things so well! I just permanently broke up with my wife of 2 years, and you seem to be having the same kind of experience as me. Hanging out with supportive friends, taking up new interests or taking your life and personal growth in new directions, really looking at what went wrong and trying to learn as much as I can about myself from it, and making plans to change those things. You're right though, while it's hard to lose that connection with someone, it's pretty exciting to be just be able to start over and kind of reinvent yourself. Best of luck!
Thanks, you too! Theres still you know, internal struggle..but you just need to keep loving what you are and wehat you have now!
