sorry Miles.....I didnt intend it to be DIRECTED at ladies....i was just curious as to what everyone thought. But i dont think its a nutty question. Is there really anything that is a nutty or stupid question? I dont think everyone who does have a disease thinks its a nutty question.
I happen to be deathly allergic to all nuts...and dangerous situations for me sometimes get called 'nutty'. I didn't realize I was typing it...ya know audience that doesn't know that. Like an inside joke. But I def don't think it is a stupid question. I just wondered whiy it is directed exclusively toward women, and you answered that. It's tuff. I'd like to think that I'd do anything if in love...but I just don't know.
This poster is a bit dogmatic for someone who almost certainly has an incurable sexually transmitted virus. LoriBabby, your ignorance is showing Jim More Love! Less Fear!
Thats why giving oral sex great, gives you time to inspect! Always ask, but they may lie, so just say not this time!
im not a big fan of oral sex to tell ya the truth. I think its kinda nasty that girls would wanna suck some dudes cock. Dudes are gross as hell (especially when you are gonna give one of em some head). I would much rather have sex anyways. It feels better. For both parties. Then i dont have to cringe when i want to kiss her either.
hahha yes of course firelip thats why i dont wanna date someone with std's.......how about the fact i dont want to risk catching an std because im clean.......but im sorry i offended you and yours
Loribaby is definitely rather confused about the realities. Lori, you have absolutely no way of knowing that you are "clean". Chances are that you have HPV on your cervix and larnyx. There is absolutely no way you can prove that you do not have HPV. If you have ever had oral sex with a man, your chances of HPV infection are very high. There is no cure and no test that can prove you clean! Chances are you may have herpes and there is noway to prove that you do not have that one either. If you are unwilling to have sex with someone with an std, then do not have sex any more even with yourself. less than 10% of the sexually active population is std free, and they can not prove it in any event. Focus on HIV and the other biggies. Those have useful tests. Ignorance can be dangerous! Jim
MeMiles, do you have a problem with the truth, or do you support dangerous ignorance. Your comment has nothing to do with this thread. If you have a problem with me, write me. If you disagree with what i say, then show my error. Otherwise piss off! jim
Looks like someone has a little more than just an ordinary case of crabs........i wonder who it is??? Im real sorry that i upset you but the fact still remains i will not mess with someone who i knew had an std...........You may say its judgemental ......but most will say its smart and i beleive miles was telling you off for jumping my ass for no reason.......unless this is a personal subject
if I knew before we were dating, NO if I found while we were going out I was question him HIGHLY and get myself tested
Loribaby, you missed the point. Define your STDs girl! Every potential sex partner has an STD and so do you. At least that should be your assumption since 80% or more do, and there is no way to tell which ones don't. I am just trying to get you to learn a bit more on the subject rather than express yourself in a way that reveals a dangerous level of ignorance. No shame in ignorance like STDs it is something we all have in one form or another.Unlike STDs, ignorance is easily cured, but willful ignorance is rather silly! I would not knowingly start a sexual relationship with an HIV positive person. I would also avoid starting a sexual relationship with someone who i thought might have a chance of truely being free of all STDs. Virgins are not to my taste anyway, and even virginity is no assurance of a lack of infection.
This a thread directed at girls That was a girl's response This is a general address that calls attention to the entire forum to single out one person, eg. this poster, and apply the label ignorant. I think everybody knows what LoriBaby means. She doesn't have to be so explicit as to list the STDs she--and all of us for that matter--are thinking about when we respond to a thread like this. And of course, she says she is clean as far as those STDs we are all thinking about. But for someone called 'ignorant' I think this was a rather polite response. Again an address not to the poster LoriBaby, but a general comment to the forum about the poster. At this point, as I was first reading, my intial thought was 'Asshole. Why is this person talking about the other in reference as a means of responding.' It's kind of like losers who refer to themselves in the 3rd person. So my response, is this: So a harsh personal attack, but one clearly addressed to you. As a response to your 'your ignorance is showing'...I was explaining to you that your response to LoriBaby was, like I said above...an asshole's response. So a muzzle would help with that whole 'shutup' lesson you obviously need to learn. My comment has everything to do with this thread because your posts, which I responded to, lie within this thread. Your dangerous ignorance, and this whole idea of incurable STDs (herpes) is soooo irelevant to the topic at hand. Nobody is thinking or caring about the diseases you refer to. You are an idiot for bringing them up. It almost seems that you sat waiting for a comment like LoriBaby's so you could jump up and down screaming..."Hey, Hey look at me". I was doing just that LoriBaby. I figured you knew what the thread starter meant like the rest of us. There are lil STDs that we've all heard about, and BIG ones. Bloody cold sores didn't need to be brought up. If almost everyone has STDs this thread doesn't exist. LoriBaby, would you like to help me present firelip with the Hipforum's Captain Obvious Award? No dude you missed the point. This girl responded to the post. You took it in some uneeded direction; it was a personal attack in fact. Nobody needs to know that you are factoring those insignificant STDs into the question. And pleeeaase I use 'insignificant' in comparison to the biggies. Just freak'n muzzle it....and snap to it. And yeah...mine (this) is a bit personal after you tell me to piss off. --oh, the wink means that its all in a bit of fun...just cuz I know you need clarification on things that are obvious to others.
*claps excitely for memilesaway* thank you for defending me and expresing my point so eloquently..........good job