ive got this friend who ive been friends with for about 5-6 years now and weve pretty much been BEST friends up until this year. all of the sudden, everything annoys me about her. i mean, i find it hard just looking her in the face. shes so fake and insecure and every conversation she has is the same recycled phrases from the last. basically, unless she changes, im done pretending shes gods gift to this world. so how do i let her know that its been fun, but we need to go our seperate ways now? or am i just a bitchy girl...?
People change. No one says you have to have the same best friend all your life. I've had to tell my 'best friend' of over 10 years where to go recently. My advice is stop ringing her so much and get some friends who aren't hers, and just hang out with them more and more. Eventually you'll just lose touch.
yeah, do it slowly, u dont have to tell her that way. Just start doing other stuff with other people and you will be appart from each other in no time.
I used to have this friend & the same shit started happening. I think it was because we were always together, you should always make time for yourself. I wouldn't advise that you just drop your friend, especially when you say you two have been close for 5-6 years. It would be a waste. Anyhow, just dont be around her as much.
maybe she's just going through a rough time right now. don't make it official by telling her how it is--i.e. "lets not be friends anymore"... just occupy your time with other things and see where it goes. you guys will more than likely drift apart... and if you start to miss her then give her a call and say "hey man, let's hang out!" by then, maybe she won't be so annoying.
