do you usually end up having intercourse with someone after meeting them? I mean in a relationship sort of way, not just a one-night stand, but someone you plan on seeing relatively regularly
Gotta love being the first vote 100% say first month! I'd say first month but it all depends on the person and the way the relationship developed. Ya know?
yeah, it really depends on the person and the type of relationship it is... I just averaged the two people I've been with lol. I think, when it's a primarily sex based relationship (and not a lot else to it) I'm more likely to hop into bed with them sooner rather than later, just because there isnt' much else to do with them. When I'm interested in the person more for their brain/personality than their body, I'm more likely to wait a little bit longer, to get to know them better as a person, because they're just that intriguing.
I don't recall it ever being more than a week or 2...except one person who we never did have sex, just foreplay for a few months.
the guy im talking to now, we had sex a few weeks after meeting but it def isnt a 'friend with benefits' kinda thing altho i did have 1 '1 night stand'
well... unfortunately for me, I like to REALLY get to know a person before sex enters into it. Sure I will flirt and even talk sexually... cyber... all that, but before swapping bodiliy fluids other than saliva, I must know and love the person well. Usually that takes months, but I don't have set amount of time... I haven't had to worry about that in a very long time.
For the most part it really depends on the guy and the mood/feelings. I have no set in stone rule. Go with the flow and enjoy.
It depends on the person really. When I met my current bf we had sex the same night we met and a little over a year later we are still together
Meh, I'm not going to make an assumption like that. It could work for some people, getting to know a person through sex. Or maybe they just look at sex differently than you do! Anyways, I'd say under a month is a good estimate, but it really just depends. I just go with my feelings, they're a pretty good guide. I need some kind of meaningful, more-than-superficial connection before I have sex with someone that I was genuinely interested in. Doesn't have to be love per se, but there has to be some kind of bond there.
my first lover and i waited 8 months to have sex the guy i'm interested in now i've known for 3 years but we just started exploring the possibilities or a relationship about a week ago, and i already want to do him, so i guess it varies
i've been with my bf for two and a half years and it took me a week before i slept with him. i wanted to do it from the second i saw him, but i thought we should wait after our first date he sent me home and came in and we were making out on the floor and i just stoped him and threw him out , i was going out of my mind because he was way too hot he still says it was the longest week in his life and it was the only time in his life when a girl has said no to him! i'm so proud of myself
I was in a relationship with the guy I lost my virginity to for 3 months before we "did the deed." Then the guy I dated after him, I was so horny (I hadn't done anything with anyone for about half a year), that I caved after 3 weeks. I slept with my current boyfriend 6 days into our relationship...though I was already so smitten by him that it took a ton of self-control to wait that long. My friends had bets going to see when we'd crack, lol. One of them even went so far as to call me fast and easy. Eh, if that's the way they wanna view it, whatever. I'm just a very sexual person. I'm a Scorpio...can't help it. Hehe.
If I average between the four people I have been with I would have to say that it is within the the first three months. I am an extremely sexual person and love waiting because it gets to a point where all you think about is having sex with the person..... eek I love that feeling.
