A girl at work messing with my mind

This may sound a little strange but I wonder if any guys have experienced this or can any of the women advise of what it means.

I work with a lot of women at work and we get on just fine. We had a new starter a few weeks ago and she was being taken around the company by our personnel officer. I thought this new girl was very pretty and stood up and shook hands. I was in the middle of some work and I glanced at my computer screen to check on it.

This next thing has never happened to me before.....

....I became aware of....nothing...like for a few seconds I was in a trance...only for a few seconds mind....when I came out of it, I had turned my head and I was staring into the eyes of this girl and her eyes into mine. It was the strangest feeling. Our eyes were locked. I finally came out of it and she went away.

I now cannot stop thinking about her. No matter where I am or what I am doing, she always comes into my mind.

I was walking past a room with a closed door (window in door) turned my head without thinking....to look in....she was sitting in there and as I turned she looked up and our eyes met.

Someone came to my desk and asked me to go into a meeting. I got up turned from my desk and she is there...sitting at the opposite end of the room just staring at me.

I'll let you know more if it happens.

 

That is completely normal.

Just talk to her, that will stop you both from having any illusions and it'll clear the mind fuck right up.

 

that's so cute

 

Thanks for the advice...its effecting my work at the moment... I was thinking about her today and somebody saw me and accused me of day-dreaming!

 

fuck the shit out of her and then youll feel much better.

 

ITs a damn nightmare, i know, I always have about 5 fantasy relationships going on at once, the best advice i can give is that if you really llike this girl, or if she really interests you, then TALK TO HER...don't be a procrastinating masturbator (he he i just made that up)

Good luck, you're a tiger, rraaaargh!

 

shes an alien...................they give good head (so is me gf)

 

Hah, I know a cute girl in my french class who I catch at certain moments like that.

We somehow were standing very close to eachother, looking into eachother's eyes for no apparent reason. Watching her eyes blink. Noticing her brown-hazel eyes. That was the first time. It happens quite often now. I don't think anything of it, just something nice that you share with that person. Maybe she just needs a big hug, eh?

I even like looking into my own eyes.. they look like misty tunnels. a very grayish blue, but IMO pretty and imagining what they look like is fun, I'll have to go check in the mirror again.

Good luck with the lady friend. Have you talked to her yet, though? Can you remember what color her eyes are?

 

Thanks wisperingwoods. Her eyes are dark and large. Not had chance to speak just a quick hello when she first started at the company. Its difficult to meet her as she works in another department 2 floors below mine. She does use the coffee lounge which is on the top floor so that would be the best time...maybe when noone else is around! Will let you know how it goes this week. Regarding your notes....do you ever turn and look at her without thinking? Thats what happened to me.

 

Yeah, sometimes. Not to the extend that it has happened to you, though.

 

i had that once. just a girl on somewhere on the streets her eyes where blue. i was obsessed with a girl for a girl for a whole year, guess they call it spilling your time

 

No sure if its an obsession with me. Its like I have no control over it. Must speak to her soon and get it over with!

 

Hurry up, how long has it been already?

 

soon? i'd let the tension mound a lil longer . ..

but that's just me

 

samething happen to me but it was not a girl or a guy it was a huge steam boiler .

 

lol @ spliff...not sure what u mean but sounds funny.


No luck I'm afraid....still not spoken to her yet.

 

man, quit bein a pussy, just talk to her

 

Yeah, they get me going too. Once you fall for a steam boiler...well...

 

I get what you mean guys... steam boiler are just so FUCKING SEXY.

 

More info on this strange situation. Had a company meal. I was not on her table and she was seated with her back to me. About half way though I turned to look at her (without thinking about doing it). She had also turned and our eyes met. We did not smile at each other and the moment passed. We had a break in the meal and I got up to chat to someone at another table. Again, without thinking, I turned to look outside though a (closed) window to behind me. She was outside in the carpark talking on her mobile and our eyes met. Very strange....even happens through a window?! This is really dragging on now but its really difficult to find the right moment at work to talk to her when she is on her own. :-(