my boyfriend is now on some stupid corporation's league in his job, omg i'm so sick of it, they have games every weekend this is getting annoying, and this is not just like "im not going" kinda thing cause he feels bad if i dont go see him play! arghhh.... and always after the game they wanna go out drinking and staying up until 5am in the morning! omg im so pissed off right now..... i could easily kill someone.
Hey AmyLeeLoo, you've pissed me off now I play soccer reguarly and it doesn't suck! And I was so nice to you in other threads But you go around offending me with your soccerphobia, blah.
Well, I mean, come on. Why blame a sport for the fact that your sig other wants to spend a small part of his life away from you?
the thing is that if u read carefuly what bothers me is not the fact that he wants to play soccer, i dont give a damn ..... what i hate is the fact that he gets all sentimental and stupid when i say i dont want to go see him play, cause its boring! i mean i dont tell him is boring cause that would hurt his feelings but i say "hey i have some other stuff to do im sorry i cant go see u play"... and stuff like that. i dont care he goes i think that's good he does something else than being with me for a change but i hate the idea that i have to there see him play just not to hurt him. that's what pisses me off. And im sorry for the title it came out a lil bit wrong maybe, this is not against the sport itself, its against the fact that the situation bothers me and i felt like sharing it here.
i thought about that and i actually doubt it. everything we do is fun stuff for both of us... the one that sucks is going to his soccer games and going out with his co-workers, oh damn i hate those days.
Relationships are totally give-and-take. But you shouldn't have to hurt his feelings to let him know that somedays you just don't want to go watch him play soccer, or hang out with his guy friends. It's all about communication and being open and honest with one another. You may not be "hurting his feelings", but you are causing all of this stress in your own life as you try and think or others ways to deal with it -- or just to succumb to the boredom. I'm sure if you two really have a strong love for one another, you can come to some form of compromise.
well, if you can't deal with this, then you aren't cut out to be with him, since he isn't gonna be any different in the future.
ahah... IG I love when you say what I'm thinking really though, it's one day a week.... what if you went every other game? then he'd be willing to go out and do something with you that he doesn't find terribly fun usually
