The Penis Thread (MERGED)

Heard that size manipulation was part of gay culture. is this accurate, or was someone making a fool of me? Silly of them to do that since i do so well myself.

 

I don't know if this is what you are asking, but are you implying that penis enlargement is a part of gay culture?!

There are plenty of men, gay or straight that are interested in those type of products. More than likely they don't work though.

Personally, I've never even considered penis enlargement, but that doesn't mean other gay men haven't...

I don't know, I think the person that told you this has no clue what they were saying.

 

I imagine a lot of gay guys don't want to have anal sex with someone who's more than 7 or 8 inches. So I don't see size a real important thing.

 

I'm not sure what you mean by size manipulation. Mushie18 has a point; heterosexual guys are probably as insecure about their equipment as gay guys.

I've seen gay personal ads where guys mention how many inches they have. Size manipulation might mean that they are lying about their size. I'm sure this happens.

I don't know anyone who has actually had surgery or used any products to make his penis bigger.

 

alright i think a three pe4rson sample answers myh question. wang stretching is not a part of gay culture.

 

"first you mash it, stretch it, then mold it into shape. "

I don't know why that came to mind while reading this, but it did. lol

 

I think that the ads for penis enlargement pumps look gay.
That must be what your dude freind was thinking.

 

In the eigth grade, believe it or not, i scanned the internet and found some "natural" penis enlargment instructions, my cock grew about 4 inches but i guess it could have been puberty hitting and my dick growing.

 

(Not sure if this goes here, but I'd really like an opinion.)

Well, this is an issue I've been wrestling with for a long, long time now. I tried dealing with it myself, but I finally have to admit that I just don't have any answers.

Let's cut to the chase:
Our popular culture seems to put a lot of stock on the size of one's, uh, assets. I mean, we have pills, enlargements, even surgery, and day-in, day-out the media tells us that our entire sexual prowess, if not our worth as a human being depends largely on what size condoms one uses.

Let's talk cold, brutal numbers. I'm 4.5 inches, and boy, does that bother me.

So, be honest: is my love-life now over, before it's ever even begun, just because of a genetic fluke? Will I face nothing but an endless stream of rejections, no matter what I'm like as person, just because my dick isn't big enough? Am I doomed to be alone?

The media seems to say "Yes, Gyromancer, to all your questions, yes. You have no worth to us. Please go kill yourself, it's not as if anyone would concievably miss you."

This issue is really eating up my already low self-esteem. I need an opinion. Does size really matter more than anything else?

 

are you wanting a strictly gay perspective on this issue, because if not I can move this thread to love and sex, personnally I think replies from all sexualities would be helpful
S

 

Well, I'm a gay male, so the primary perspective I'm looking for is from other gay males.

 

i'm not a gay male, but one of my best friends is.
from what he's said, huge cocks = fucking painful. my friend says he prefers smaller ones as they hurt less.

and no, of course your love life isn't over! anyway, it's not how big it is, it's how you use it.

 

Some greedy people have spent millions of dollars on advertising to get you to feel crappy about yourslef and buy their worthless pills. But there are plenty of reasons not to worry too much about your measurements...

Some women worry about a smiliar topic, breast size, which is much more openly discussed. I know plenty of people who are attacted to women and don't really care about how large a woman's breasts are. Granted, some people care a great deal, but not all do. On a more personal note, one of my eyes is a bit messed up from an early childhood surgery. I once thought that nobody would ever like me becasue of it, but I have sinced realized that is not true. Some people might through me out of their dating pool because of it, but i think this number is small. Anyway, I think the point is that some people will find you attractive and others won't, for any number of reasons.

As far a performance goes, people have various preferances in terms of size. Most people I know say that skills and creativity are vastly more important than size.

Finally, I don't think 4.5'' is that far below the average length- not that it matters too much anyhow.

 

I think the problem is that the gay scene (and i'm not saying every gay male) seems size orientated, like gay porn for example is all about dicks and close ups.
it all depends what the rest of the package is like as well!
and also and this has already been touched on there aren't that many people who are completly happy with their bodies, so if it wasn't your cock size it would be something else
S

 

Ok , Im not a gay male , but I think size is not an issue , you can develope a way of kissing that makes your partner melt in your arms , or , focus on becoming an oral God , or a way of touching your partner so that by the time your size is even apparant , he wont even care !!!!!

 

Yeah... a true connection matters much more then size (not that Im a gay male either) but I think its kinda universal that a connection and all that goes with it is most important.... I wouldnt worry, seriously.

 

Im not gay or a man (yet)
All I can say its what you do with it not the size, do more foreplay, find your own way of making yourself and partner happy.
And the male g-spot if only about 2 inches in so that shouldnt stop ya hahaha

Seriously though your sex life isnt over, its just begun, think of all fun you can have with someone and they CAN have alot of fun with you x

 

Hey man,

It's not how deep you fish, it's how you wiggle your worm!!!

I wouldn't give it too much thought if I were you. It's not what life throws at you, it's how you deal with it.

 

don't worry about it, i usually don't even notice how big the guys are (but maybe i'm weird)

 

Don't worry about it. if someone defines you by your size then they aren't worth chasing after. A true friend/lover will love you and want to be with you for who YOU are, not the size of your penis.

The ones that are size queens don't hang around one guy too long because they'll get used to its size and have a need to move on always in pursuit of a larger penis. they are the lonely ones.

good luck,
peace,
bob