hoo hummm

well I am single and bored.
Im tired of being single and Im tired of being in relationships.
Im not gay.
Im bisexual.
I MISS PENIS
but when Im with a guy
I MISS PUSSY
wtf?!
you know I'm thinking Im being a typical 19 year old.
I want everything, and once I get it, I dont want it anymore.
Am I typical, or just a brat?
Ohhh man.
I really want to have sex, but at the same time I'm so bored of it.
I think I need a hobby.
damn.
Any adivice?
Comments?
Anyone in the same situation?

 

I'm sooooooo glad to hear you're bi, I thought you were gay. I'm sure you'll find someone that makes you love being in a relationship soon enough, good luck. xx.

 

other than offering you a seat on my lap to temporarily take your mind off this dilema, I got nothing - sorry

 

you need a hermaphrodite

or else a really cool couple, where you could date both of the people there Probably easier to find too

 

LOL!
hey thanks guys!

 

I just think your cute

 

It's just that nobody really meets your incredibly high standards.

Wait a second, I'm not trying to insult you.

I say this because I'm the same way. We know our own type.

I very much live in a fantasy world. When my reality doesn't equal my fantasy in terms of potency (which it almost never does), it's easy to get discouraged or bored.

But it really means we just have to work even harder to make our fantasy reality. That's how I interpret it anyway. You can have your own.

 

Bored of sex???? Crazyyy
Yeah I suppose a lot of things can get boring at 19, that's why I'm going skydiving in the summer. I analyzed my life and realized I was boring last year, my resolution was to be crazy this year. I'm doing good so far.

 

i think a hobby sounds like a good idea, find something ELSE exciting, and stay single and be SAFE and HONEST, but mess around with different ppl when you want and don't try to limit yourself to one person since that obviously isn't working for you. lots of ppl don't want commitment or want a commitment to polygamy (if that makes sense) so don't freak out... take your mind off of it and find a hobby like you mentioned.

 

I've just realized that the crushes I'm getting on couples is a sign. I'm not designed for a one-on-one relationship. I've got to have both at once! I tried fantasizing about couples and that was the nicest tingliest fantasy I've ever had. I recommend it to you missy.

 

I couldn't understand your plight more. When I was in high school, I was completely convinced I was a lesbian. Then, I truly started missing men. Perhaps, nothing more than a longing for a nice, hard cock. So, I decided I was straight, yet every weekend, my girlfriends and I would get pissed drunk and fool around. So, then, I was totally confused. I wasn't straight, but I wasn't gay. I decided that I'm officially as bisexual as I can be.

As for relationships, that's a little harder. It's never easy to slowly work into a comfy place with a new guy and spring on him, "Oh, by the way, I like pussy, too." I hate the way people think that if you're bisexual, it's automatically okay to not be faithful. Now, I'm not faithful to my fiancé. (I don't need a lecture, please...) But, I would never justify any of my lovers with the notion that, "Oh, it's okay to cheat because I'm bi."

So, if you feel you need pussy and cock at the same time, either stay outta a relationship or have two (or more?) understanding partners.

 

yellowbellyhippy--->Your CUTEST!

and Rigamarole, I never thought of myself as having high standards before, but I think that may be part of the problem. I think I am a brat! haha. I AM an only child, what can you expect?!

tigerlily says I DO need a hobby. Can a hobby be something like getting out of the house more often, and NOT for work or school??? cuz after a whole days school than a nights work, Im pretty frigin lazy, but I feel cheated b/c I didnt get to do anything that I really wanted to do, like go tanning or shoping, or watching a movie with some friends.

And white ginger, I dont think I could handle a couple. If Rigamarole is right, and I have incredibly high standards than how the heck would I find a couple that meets it?!Plus I have enough going on in my life I wouldnt want to deal with a couples problems too, especially if I became part of the problem.AND for where I live, I think it would be pretty hard to find a couple that wanted to have a third wheel.

And Miss Bella Donna. I'm glad to hear that someone else has done what I am doing. I really hate it when guys think its super cool and "not really cheating" when I fuck around with a girl. BUT at the same time Im happy b/c I get to have both. BUT I usually end up leaving the guy in the end to be with a girl. THAN when Im with the girl. I miss the guy. WTF!? did you do that too? fuck, Im just so confused. And I would just try fucking around, and having a girl that I sleep with sometimes, and I guy that I sleep with sometimes, but I have a hard time keeping my emotions uninvolved. and I think that its unfair to expect the other person to do the same. And please dont suggest polygamy or anything, b/c I dont want that at all. I want to get married to one person only someday. AND right now Im not looking for someone to marry. Im not even looking for a relationship. Im just tring to figure out myself. So Bella Donna, does this get easier? or do you just get used to it?

 

"Once that commitment is made i doubt you will find it hard to be faithful weather they be male or female"
hey thats a comforting thought!
thanks Dirk Pitt!

 

well...where to start...too bad you dont live in florida where you COULD be involved with a couple minus the drama...US! we both want to marry one person one day, my gf is BI...so, for now, if she sees a girl she likes and brings her home, its cool, she can do what she wants, i know who she loves..and vice versa, when one of her gfs wants a piece of her man, who knows, we havent had a problem yet...what you need are people who understand your values and who also are interested in exploring the same fields you are...anyways, good post!

 

Your young, how big can your problems be?

 

^
hahhahhahahhahahaa
thats so rude.
young or old problems are problems.
I'm not saying ohhh look my life is so much worse than yours.
I'm saying I have a problem and I want someone to talk about it with.
stop being a dick.

 

Easier? Never. Do you get used to it? Yeah. The human being is very adaptive and will eventually be able to cope with a variety of unexpected occurances. Spending some time "finding yourself" is a very smart move. I always tell people that they shouldn't touch another person, until they can touch themselves. It's the same rationality.

When I'm with a man, I long for a woman and vice versa. File that one under the "grass is greener" section. You have to acknowledge the fact that you will desire for the opposite sex of the one you're with. That's natural for bisexual people. If that desires becomes strong enough that you wish to act upon it, then, exit the current relationship and begin another. Now is the time in your life to play the field. Sample the merchandise. Find out what you like and what you want. The answers will not come overnight, but with time.

Good luck and remember, have lots of fun and few regrets.

 

TheMistress - sounds like you need to find yourself a cute couple.

 

thanks bella donna!
you have made me feel like less of a brat.
"Sample the merchandise"
Imma start ASAP
but first I gotta end the relationship Im in.

 

in your first post.. from yesterday... you said you were single and bored and now today you have to get out of the relationship your'e in? did you get into another relationship today?