Girls, I am a guy who needs an opinion.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now. We had sex for the first time one year ago. She never wants to have sex though. Even though every time we do she tells me how much she likes it. Once she even said "I wish we could do this all the time". So I wonder why she never wants to anymore. It has been 2 and a half months since the last time. Every week I go on a date with her, but she won't even let me touch her sexually because she doesnt want me to "turn her on". I havn't gone past kissing in forever. What do you think the problem is, I just can't figure it out...

 

She got religious issues or something?

 

She doesn't have any religeous issues. She just never wants to have sex. I thought maybe something was wrong. So I asked her why she didnt want to have sex, and she said... I don't know. So I said well do you not love me anymore or something. But she was like... no I love everything about you. So I dunno what the problem is.

 

maybe she just found out she had an std and doesnt know how to tell you? Its just a hypothesis. Std's can be contracted without even having sex so its not like she cheated on you and got an std...but her recently contracting something isnt totally out of the question....many many many people live life with stds. But you need to keep stressin to her that she can talk to you about anything. If she says she doesnt know why she doesnt want to make love....from your post it sounds like she does. And she doesnt have the guts to tell you whats the matter. Hope you guys get everything starightened out soon man, peace.

 

I don't think that is it. The way she is acting now is how she has been acting for about the past 6 months. We still have sex though, just only like once every few months. So if she was hiding an STD then we probably wouldn't have had sex those few times.

 

your penis is too small

 

I dunno... I can make her scream pretty loud. I know she likes it.

 

The only way you can find out what's going on is if she tells you.
Dont try to find answers by urself because u will always end up thinking the wrong
thing, there's no way anyone in here will be able to tell you what's going on because
there are millions of reasons for a woman to behave that way.

You need to sit her down and talk to her because that answer "i dont know" that's
bullshit... of course she knows, you just have to sit her down and use the "you dont
trust me line" to get her to tell you what's going on. Make her know u're worried that
u're doing something wrong or what, having sex is a normal thing in a relationship and
she's not behaving normally, there must be a reason for it and she's the only one who
know what.