Not sure were this goes, sorry! My first time was a total let-down. I always thought it would be a monumentous occasion. Actually, I had planned on not having sex until I got married, but anyway...after months of building up to it, on Halloween night of 2003, it happened. I was drunk and stoned. The guy I was dating lasted all of about three minutes. And he always seemed different to me after that night. I think I no longer admired him. I wish I could take it back. Was anybody's first time what you expected it to be?
My 1st time was awfull, I layed there while my "boyfriend" was on top of me all sweaty and grunting like a hog while ripping me apart making me bleed. I couldn't beleive people actually liked what I had gone through. lol
My first time was awful, we were both 15 and very shy. There was no foreplay or communication and cause I was too worried about being a flop or a one minute man, I just lay on top of her fucking for about an hour, it was so boring I almost fell asleep and she ended up in so much pain that she never wanted to do it again. I only learn't to be a better lover when I was 19, I met an older woman who taught me alot. See communication is the key. Btw AllieCat beautiful picture! xx.
My first boyfriend was selfish and greedy. He'd get all excited and apparently aroused, then just lie back and expect me to please him, having barely touched me. So my first time was all work and no pleasure. I felt cold and used afterwards, and there was no second time with him. A complete letdown Xx
Mine was pretty amazing actaully... It happened impeccably, I wouldnt have wished to do it any other way.. It was beautiful in the early summer sun with the shadows of the dense green plants cast on my lovers face, im not sure how long i lasted, i dont think more than 5 minutes. But since im such a great guy, she thinks it was perfect too yay i did it right!
Duh, everybody's first time is magical and romantic, like a fantasy with perfume and thousands of rose petals leading to the bed, adorned with silk sheets, where sweet love occurs. The love-making is followed by indulgences of champagne, caviar, and chocolate. The two lovers then make exquisite and beautiful music long into the night, until they fall asleep caressing each other in their arms. I mean that's how my first time was anyway. Sucks for you.
Mine wasn't anything special, but it wasn't bad either. Let's see... I was 19, and it was with a (now) close guy friend of mine, on his uncomfortable-ass bed, at about 5:30 - 6 in the morning... we were both baked out of our minds on this excellent KB he had.. Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back was playing in the back ground.. lol and it was peachy until I fucked up and said ow because he's fuckin hung and he bumped my cervix, which hurt- but not in an altogether bad way- but of course it freaked him out that he might possibly be hurting me, and he stopped.. I'd always kind of pictured it happening a little bit differently, but I really wouldn't change anything about it.. I can look back and smile, so it's all good.
The best thing to do is have no expectations, that way you can't be let down and disappointed. Things are rarely as you anticipate and usually, you're not as experienced or ready to do the things and have the outcomes, you saw in your mind. Also, when you go straight for it and don't have foreplay first, it is usually over pretty quickly. A lot of people have sex for the orgasm, not the joy and pleasure of being so close to another human and having the intimacy. I wonder, did this boy know you were a virgin? I assume not and this is why he just got right down to it and thought about himself. Either that, or he is selfish and didn't care about it being more of an experience for you. Sorry, but he thought of you as just a girl to have sex with and you are probably in a long line. Casual sex is perfectly fine, but when you are after something more meaningful like you were, someone like him is the wrong choice. My advice, is to wait until you find some who you know cares about you and your needs, who wants to think about you and what makes you feel good. You doing the same in return, means it will be meaningful like you want. Be patient, sex is supposed to fun as well as pleasurable. There's no point being in a rush when you know it won't be worth it. Take the positives from your first experience. You know how it feels now, if it is painful etc, you know what you want in the future in regards to sex and what you want from your partner. Maybe you didn't know so much as before. Accept what you can't change and make sure the next time is better.
first time was awesome. Girl was a little older and had sex once before. Typical teenage house party. We had a little bit of a buzz on but nothing too wacky. It was just enough to keep us feeling happy and me not awkward cuz it was the first time. it didn't last very long but i made up for it by going 3 more times before the end of the night...and i was feel'n pretty proud o me by the last one.
I remember the fist time. I was in Brazil, in Salvador de Bahia, with a beautiful brazilian girl....mmmm.......
first times are supposed to be bad, it's like a rule of physics or something. me and my boyfriend at the time were having sex with the door partially open because it was warped in the summer and wouldn't shut. his dad was vacuuming RIGHT OUTSIDE THE DOOR. and it was just really awkward... on a single bed. didn't hurt as much as i thought it would though.
My first time was really unpleasant. I was 14 and he was 18 or 19, and he basically just screwed the shit out of me- there wasn't any forplay, just wierd, spitty, sickening kisses. In a way, its like I don't remember it anymore.
