If it wasn't for guys, sex would rock!

Yes, age 15...


It sucks....

 

My father's a baptist minister. It doesn't take much to make him uncomfortable.

 

But are *you* a baptist? Do things for YOU, not anyone eles. I thought your age said 19.... you are an adult now. You can make whatever decision you want.

 

I know you're right. Now I'm more upset/confused than I was when I started this thread. I just need to get the fuck out of this town.

 

semen isn't disgusting... you just gotta think about it right. And have the right partner, who'll respect you and what you want (both from them and from yourself)

as for guys losing interest, well, yeah most need a little downtime post-cum. But hey, so do I usually, it's great snuggling time. Or for a glass of water, to refresh yourself. As long as they're willing to try again in a bit, have another go n' all that it should be ok. Don't expect them to be the energizer bunny, but do expect (and demand) some respect and consideration

 

So get outta there for a bit, save some money up for the spring and then go have a rockin summer. Go see some shows, or tour some national Parks, or get a summer job in some cool town. Big Country, lots ta see. So many options of how to have a fun and enriching experience for a summer.

 

Its not nessercarily an age thing, im still quite young and am very atentive to my partners and allways hav been. i think perhaps its more an attetude thing, ofcause that might come with age but i dont think it has to.

 

If it wasn't for guys, sex would be redundant!

 

well uh.. sometimes it tastes good. or maybe i'm just weird.

 

yeah and you love your dad and that's awesome. From the lil bit that I have talked to ya I think your stellar girl...very pretty, funny and obviously the owner of a great heart!

I honestly believe that there is a light there hoping you'll trust it no matter what else you hear...not from yourself or anyone else. Everyone has same sex thoughts at some stage...personally i'd hold your current course.

By the way, I think you are more than a little hot and I think it may have something to do with the fact that your sig pic captures motion.

Go be awesome girl!

 

ok sit tight.

So what your saying to Alliecat is,

That's some pretty persuasive language. Are you just telling her to do what you've done? Excuse me if I offend.

I heard her say she doesn't wanna go down a path that pushes her further from the family she loves, the identity that was born the day her parents first held her. All I hear is you telling her not to listen to that. And yeah, I'd say love and family carries a little more weight than personal pleasure--girl sex.

it irks me all this propagation of ill ass behavior.

 

Exactly, same here. There are guys who care about their partner and want to please her and there are also the guys who just wanna do it, not having in mind what their partner wants.

 

Thanks everybody for your enlightening, and sometimes even touching, responses. On the next episode of Alicia's online therapy sessions we'll be discussing "Intelligent Girls: Why do guys run screaming?"

 

haha thats funnny. An intelligent girl is exactly what im looking for. Girls just seem to run from me! lol. I think intelligence goes a long way in terms of what kind of a person somebody is. Most girls around me are so oblivious to everything. Especially the people that really care about them. That is why problems happen like the one you were talking about allie. Guys treat girls like shit and they just wanna get laid. Most girls are way too good for guys in my opinion. It absoultely baffles me to see certain women...beautiful, intelligent and nice women with these fucking jack ass dickheads who treat them like a fuck toy or something. Sorry to hear of your troubles....you just need to find a romantic guy that will be happy when he wakes up and gets to see a face as beautiful as yours next to him.

By the way allie....i love your sig. quote. Is that from John Hammond? the blues singer or Robert Johnson or something? i know ive heard that from some blues song lol. Anywho, happy trails
-jacob fred J.O.

 

call me old fashioned (and then somehting else for not reading this all the way thru)
but uh...have sex with guys after you know them? maybe? i dunno

 

You obviously haven't met the right guy yet...

 

"All I really want is girls! In the morning it's girls!"

hehehehehe

sorry, couldn't help myself!

 

exactly. the only guys running from intelligent girls are unintelligent boys. mental stimluation is often on par with sexual stimulation for me. my brains a fuckin zoosacapade of wonder and nothings better than finding that syncness with a femal mind. its amazingly unbelievable though. i guess to often its that you can't find both, like an equal mental and sexual match.

i honestly think i'd choose mental over sexual. that totally means i'm not shallow

 

haha, Zooscapaede...good word




...Marcos...Escuandolas.....

 

a. girl sex is not ill ass behaviour, and it is an assumption on your part to say that allie would do it only for her personal pleasure.
b. YBH, from what I heard, was not trying to persuade alliecat to try what she's tried, but to present a different tone and connotation to allie's feelings for girls.
c. I suggest that no one except ourselves can figure out our own identity. If we leave it to our parents or anyone else, then we give up all our power, all our innate drive for creativity, and, in a sense, become someone else's idea of our identity.
d. Allie can be deeply loving towards her parents and still choose to follow her own feelings and heart. If her parents decide not to support her in what she explores, then so be it.