I love sex, but why does it have to envolve body fluids? Semen is disgusting. It's sticky and tastes gross. After a guy cums, they lose all intrest in you. They become a completely different person. I don't get how I can go from being the center of the universe, to "Oh shit, I gatta go. Call me later." As for the physical enjoyment, I can do better on my own. If it wasn't for guys, sex would rock!
Its just your age group hun, guys mature and aren't like that when they are older, in my experience anyway.
No babe! you've just been with the wrong guys, probably young'uns. Older guys concentrate on pleasing the woman, can last longer, and are less selfish. We are also more experienced too. Young guys usually just wanna cum and that's it. Don't give up on guys, it would be a major loss to the male race, you're gorgeous! xx.
Semen isn't sticky. Surup is sticky. Semen isn't sticky. After I cum girls aren't attractive any more. Its easy to understand.
I think you're having sex with the wrong person/people. My boyfriend always holds me and tells me he loves me after sex, and no man should walk away from you afterward. If you can give someone your body, they can give you 10 fucking minutes- thats my motto... Men do lose some interest after they cum- I know they feel physically 'flat' and emotionally detached sometimes. But I have explained to my boyfriend and past lovers that I need to feel special and loved afterwards- and if you can't suck it up and deal, then no more sex for you! Also, if you are uncomfortable letting a man ejaculate in your mouth, don't let him. Its your body and YOUR sexual experience, and its up to you to decide what you like and what you don't like. You could always try with a woman, too.
I have had thoughts about girls, but those thoughts frighten me and I push them out of my mind. I have enough trouble dealing with identity issues without that. I don't want to find out that I really am into girls.
All guys are definately not like that Alliecat. Find they guy that'll take the time to have fun playin around, lots of foreplay, massages, kissing. He'll be more likely to be the one tha'll leave you a little more fullfilled. Yes, we males do tend to deflate a bit afterwards, but theres no better nap in the world than cuddling up with your lover afterwards. Waking up a little while later and starting all over again ain't so bad either.
People are pretty conservative here. If I were to become involved with a girl I would have to keep it secret, and I don't want to start living a lie. I'm very close with my family, but I don't think they (especially my father) would understand.
^^ definitely. Listen to the lady and dont turn against men, or semen. Semen can be good (unless you think you may be into girls. In which case, go for that ) Xx
So let me see if I get this straight ... what other people think should matter? People are conservative in my neighbourhood too. That doesn't keep me from being ... well ... pretty much as liberal as possible. I just went out and found my own friends, and stay away from them as much as possible. Perhaps you should do the same. I think it's a little too late for that, by your own admission. (But cheer up, you don't have to be into girls exclusively!) Either way, it sounds like you want to make love with someone, not just fuck. Not everyone is into making love (and not everyone is into fucking), so you just have to find someone who sees things the way you do. I tend to be part of the former group (the group with the energizer batteries, that keep going and going ...) mainly just because of my personality. We are out there ... you just have to go fishing for men.
Girl sex is awsome! Don't deny any feelings you may have, besides...this world is conservative enough...don"t follow the same footsteps youve grown up in...make people just a little uncomfortable.
EXACTLY you shouldnt care about what other ppl think.. just stay true to yourself.. and you'll probably have a lot of fun doing it