Generally speaking, I close my eyes during a lot of sex play. Especially when giving or recieving oral, I like to close my eyes and concentrate on sensations. However, when giving a blow job, when my partner's about to cum, I like to look him in the eye. Even if it's just for a second or he doesn't even notice it, it's a turn on for me so I usually do it. Anyways, yesterday I was giving one of my boytoys some oral lovin'. This particular man oftens watches me while I blow him. I have no problem with it, if that's his preferences, that's fine with me. However, when he came, I looked up at him as I swallowed. Directly afterwards, he told him it was the sexiest thing. He even wrote me an E-mail today going on and on about how no woman has ever looked at him during oral and he found it to be crazy- sexy! He said "It would be pullin' material for years!" So, guys, what's up with this? Does eye contact drive you crazy? Girls, how do you feel about it?
until my last partner, i always had my eyes closed.. but he was really into watching me get off*.. so i decided to try keeping them open.. to try and see what he got out of it.. and i found the eye contact can be really intense, and that i like it alot.. i still don't keep them open the whole time, but the times when they are.. mmm
Day_tripper- I find it really intense, too, but hard to keep up for too long. Hmmmmm, lots of votes, but few comments...
eye contact is great, but not all the time. with eye contact, theres just more of a connection between the man and woman, its hot too. if both know each other, then they can read each others eyes and know what they want without speaking and if a girl looks up with "puppy dog" eyes, then its just really fucking hot for that moment when you make the connection with each other. but you don't need to always make eye contact.
I do really like lookign up while performing oral. Not for long times, but glances to see how he's doin, yeah... that's hot, to see how much pleasure I'm giving him as for receiving, well... for oral, I can only glance, I really just have to close my eyes and focus on the sensations. During intercourse, I can keep eyecontact a little longer, but I still have to close my eyes fairly often... it's just too much, too intense to keep up
I absolutely LOVE watching a woman perform oral on me. If she is especially good at it and tries to deep throat alot it is even better watching her. Unfortunately, when I cum it is difficult for me to watch her. My orgasms are so intense, It's like my eyes roll back in my head and I loose total control. Of course, that's a GOOD thing.
i think it's amazingly hot. I particularly enjoy looking right into the eyes of the person whos down there making me happy. such an electric feeling... same thing while i'm down there doing the business, it's nice to see how they are enjoying what i'm doing to them.. wow it seems like centuries since i last had sex. though i have to say i got used to being celibate by now. no biggie
eye contact is awesome...and not just during sex. As for a girl staring into my eyes when I cum in her mouth? Nuclear Fission. Might as well be sucking a part my soul right out and entwing it with hers. Turns me into a smitten puppy.
I like the build up with the eye contact. Kind of gradual, when they think you're not watching and then your gaze locks and I get so turned on by him being turned on and you can see it in the eyes - but not too much, gotta enjoy the sensations as well...
We don't make much eye contact during oral, but when we are in the lotus position and both about to cum...it's amazingly hot to lock eyes and make that connection on multiple levels...
ok, ususally i close my eyes when im doing stuff or i look at what im doing to make sure im in the right spot... but last time, i wasnt going down on her, but i was kissing her belly kinda moving down and i looked over her tits just high enough to see her face and she was looking back, and she just breaks out laughing. I guess the veiw was funny.... um yeah
I can only speak for myself. But Eye contact I think can be "THE" most intimate contact a couple can have. That is the difference between just "Fucking" someone, and "Making Love".
Eye contact is hugely hot! Yes, and deep kissing while having sex is awesome as well. And I agree, it is so intense to stare into each others eyes that it can be hard to do at times.
I like to keep my eyes closed when a guy goes down on me.. Just a comfort thing I suppose.. Plus the feeling is a lil more intense.. When I go down on a guy I like to give him a good view (hair outa face), and make eye contact every couple seconds.
If you give a little glance into her eyes and do that on occassion it's not too creepy but when someone is staring at you/me while down on me I kind of get freaked out and lose that mood. I dont mind alittle eye contact here and there though.
