Which do you like better? Medical terminology for anatomy like vagina, labia, vulva, clitorus, penis, semen, ejaculate, coitus, etc. or Slang terminology like pussy, **** lips, snatch, clit, dick, jiz, spunk, fucking, etc.?
for me the two are one and the same in many cases.... but really, word choice depends entirely on context and exactly what you're trying to convey. i'm not going to go on about STDs effecting the "****" or "man pole," but similarly i'm not going to get a girl hot by telling her i want to give her "cunnilingus" and then have "intercourse" until the sun comes up. there IS a fine line down the middle, i believe.
The only medical term I use is penis, I'll talk about a penis but I'll never talk about a vagina, it's always pussy.
I prefer the real words. How does a vagina look like a cat? What's a penis have to do with some guy named Dick? These words can often lead to embarising misunderstandings and jokes. Plus you need a dictionary to learn all the slang.
More often than not, I use the "correct" termonology. A long, long time ago when I was but a wee tot and my mother explained the birds and the bees to me, she used all technical mumbo-jumbo. I never even knew what a "blow job" was until high school, but I could tell you what fellatio was... To this day, I use the technical terms or weird alternate phrases I make up. But some slang is fun to say, like "cock", I pronounce it "cack" and it makes me giggle. And "pooh-say" instead of "pussy".
I think the slang terms sound really ugly. Sex to me is a beautiful thing, and so i like to make language about sex as beautiful as possible. The words "dick, prick, cock, ****"...really just dont do it for me. Itd feel dirty and cheap. Xx
Slang is always better because it's so dirty. *evil grin* And considering the fact that most people are ignorant and don't realize that the VULVA is the entire thing between a woman's legs and the VAGINA is where the hole is. *DUH*! I get into this argument more than enough and it's annoying.
that's the point... I think sex is beautiful too, me and my husband have amazing loving sex but getting rough and dirty and saying those things turn me on sooooooo much. I do see your point and agree to an extent, but most of my best friends have been guys so I think talking like that for me is quite natural.
it all depends on who im talking too and in what content im using the words..during sex its always the dirty words(slang) if it is like im describing a women giving birth or such things like that i would say the baby emerges from her vagina ..not pussy..
I agree with many of the above it depends on where I am at and with whom I am talking. When I was raising kids I used both sets of words and told them when and were which word should be used. Private talk and public talk.