I always wondered this...well me being a virgin I was curious as to how the timing of orgasms work? like when I orgasm (alone) thats when I stop, I mean I can keep going but it doesn't do anything for me. plus it takes awhile for it to go limp, (I think thats a good thing) but during sex what happens? Does the couple try to syncronize it? Or whoever cums first finishes the other one off through oral er...? -Thanks!
I try to time it where we both cum together. But if you go first and your still hard, just keep fuckin' till she gets off. I hear alot of stories from women where the guy will cum and then he just stops. That pisses them off. I think thats pretty damn selfish. Pleasing others, pleases me. If I know they are hella turned on or having hella orgasms, it turns me on more. Just remember to please your woman.
Yes yes yes! Nickmast is absolutely right! In a perfect world, every couple would orgasm together, but alas; sometimes, that's not the case. If you get off before she does, it's always polite to return the favour. Personally, I like oral when that happens. But, if she's really excited, sometimes just a little clit-rubbing will do the job...
I usually find it difficult to keep going after I orgasm; I _can_ for a short period of time, but it's harder to do, and moving a lot in rhythm during an orgasm is hard and if I focus on it I can't lose myself in the orgasm as much. Some things are also mental, and my partner and I sometimes reach our respective orgasms much faster when the other one of us orgasms because it's such a turn on, so if she's getting close, it's worth it to keep going in the hopes that she'll get there too.
Try to hold your orgasm and cum when she does Girls generally take longer to orgasm and guys can get off in less than 5 minutes so just hold it
My hubby is the gentleman and always makes sure that I have an orgasm first. It's great when we have one at the same time, but it doesn't happen all that often, usually I have mine and then he has his.