Ok...Ready...Set...Damn It!

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by Insomniac_Junkie, Jan 26, 2006.

  1. Insomniac_Junkie

    Insomniac_Junkie Member

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    I always wondered this...well me being a virgin [​IMG] [​IMG] [​IMG] I was curious as to how the timing of orgasms work? like when I orgasm (alone) thats when I stop, I mean I can keep going but it doesn't do anything for me. plus it takes awhile for it to go limp, (I think thats a good thing) but during sex what happens? Does the couple try to syncronize it? Or whoever cums first finishes the other one off through oral er...?

    -Thanks! [​IMG]
     
  2. Nickmast

    Nickmast Member

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    I try to time it where we both cum together. But if you go first and your still hard, just keep fuckin' till she gets off. I hear alot of stories from women where the guy will cum and then he just stops. That pisses them off. I think thats pretty damn selfish. Pleasing others, pleases me. If I know they are hella turned on or having hella orgasms, it turns me on more. Just remember to please your woman.
     
  3. Bella_Donna

    Bella_Donna *Femme Fatale*

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    Yes yes yes! Nickmast is absolutely right! In a perfect world, every couple would orgasm together, but alas; sometimes, that's not the case. If you get off before she does, it's always polite to return the favour. Personally, I like oral when that happens. But, if she's really excited, sometimes just a little clit-rubbing will do the job...
     
  4. dspiel

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    I usually find it difficult to keep going after I orgasm; I _can_ for a short period of time, but it's harder to do, and moving a lot in rhythm during an orgasm is hard and if I focus on it I can't lose myself in the orgasm as much.
    Some things are also mental, and my partner and I sometimes reach our respective orgasms much faster when the other one of us orgasms because it's such a turn on, so if she's getting close, it's worth it to keep going in the hopes that she'll get there too. :)
     
  5. Bismillah

    Bismillah Member

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    Try to hold your orgasm and cum when she does :) Girls generally take longer to orgasm and guys can get off in less than 5 minutes so just hold it :)
     
  6. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    My hubby is the gentleman and always makes sure that I have an orgasm first. [​IMG]

    It's great when we have one at the same time, but it doesn't happen all that often, usually I have mine and then he has his.
     
  7. PurpleGel

    PurpleGel Senior Member

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    i won't come until she does. simple as that.
     
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