OK, I'm going to try and make this understandable.... Back in August of 2005, I realized I had very strong feelings for a close friend of mine (lets call her Michelle), so strong that I broke up with my (at the time) girlfriend of a year and a half because of it, not for Michelle, but because of the situation and I was unhappy with my girlfriend at the time. Anyway, I told her about my feelings for her, but we never went anywhere after that, just remained good friends. I had recently found out that she liked me then, just didn't want to go anywhere with me because I had just gotten out of that long relationship. Anyway, I moved on (or so I thought) and I have been with this other girl for a few months now, and I do really care for her, but lately I have had feelings for Michelle again, and I keep think about how amazing she is. The thing is, my current girlfriend and I are NOTHING alike, I had the mindset that opposites attract at the start of this relationship, but it's not working well for me now. Also, we fight a lot, she is very depressive and upset all the time, she never listens to me or believes me about anything, and she is very insecure, so much so that we've actually gotten into fights about it. I've thought about breaking up with my girlfriend; I really want to be with Michelle, she is so different, she's happy with her life and that makes me happy, and we have more in common, I just don't really know if it can work out that way.... I guess I'm asking for advice....thanks to those who read all of this and help me!
Well Namaste, i think you have a typical situation here. The famous "what if" about this Michelle girl. If u like the girl and think about her that much and all that then you should be with her at least to try and have a relationship with her, being with other girls is not going to help, I know u said u thought u got over her at the time u started with this new girlfriend you have now but that's it anyways. The thing is, is Michelle available and willing to start something with you? How about your current girlfriend? is she in love with you? are you seriously thinking about breaking up with her, even if its not for Michelle? I think the answers are yours and this is not a hard situation since you know ur feelings very well, things with ur gf are not working and u have a crush on Michelle.. easy.
