Hey guys, I’ve got an interesting situation, I hope you guys can help... My girlfriend and I have been going out for the past year and we’ve gotten pretty close. We haven’t had sex but we’ve fooled around a lot. A few times, when we’re making out, I’ve played with her pussy by rubbing my fingers against it gently. And numerous times I’ve went down on her as well. Two things bother me though: First, she never says that she’s turned on no matter how many times or how I ask her. I know she’s shy and it’s not that major of an issue but I’d like to know that what I’m doing is bring pleasure to her just as much as it is to me. Second, sometimes when we’re fooling around, I can tell that she’s extremely turned on and she’s enjoying it but all of a sudden, as if right before she has an orgasm, she tells me to stop. I don’t know for sure whether it’s because she’s about to have an orgasm and has never experienced one so she’s afraid or is it because she all of a sudden looses interest? I was wondering what you ladies out there have to say about this. Is there something else I can try to make her more comfy so that she actually goes through with an actual orgasm or am I completely misunderstanding her signals?
this should probably be moved to love and sex... She probably is turned on but uncomfortable about it.
Sounds to me that she is embarrassed about having an orgasm in front of you. You should probably just sit down and have a good conversation with her.
You don't need vocal confirmation that she's turned on. You already said you can see it. All you need to do is look at her. Eyes scrunched, heavy breathing, body moving in waves...she's feeling it.
sounds to me like she's definitely enjoying it but is nervous to finish for some reason. you could talk to her gently, tell her how much you're enjoying it too, and that you want to make her feel good. you've got to make her feel more comfortable.
