*NON-Hater Circumcision Thread* - Please Read!

Alright, I read all that was in the "Cut vs. Uncut" thread, and as I got to the 6th and 7th page i was getting more and more eager to post and stop the stupidiness. Then "circumcision", the return of the circumsized penis thread, came about but quickly went to shit.

So here's my shot at the topic, and those who are uncut I hope you'll read on...
I am uncut, and for most of my life since, i started playing around with my penis and discovering all the neat things you can do with it, I was confused why my penis looked differnt then ones id see in porn, and how people in school described them. Time went on, I read about the whole cut and uncut thing, and i was actually pissed at my parents for not cutting me, mainly cus i had thought that every other boy in the world was cut. It was an image thing, i didnt want my dick to look the way it did. I actually didn't think it was natural.
After learning the science of the penis I realized that mine was actually as natural as it could get. I began to have sympathy for it, and it gained a little more respect from me. The older I got, the more respect I had for my penis, and today I have plenty of respect for it and don't wish i was cut. I plan on making the best of my natural penis form. There are some downsides to being uncut however, and I'm curious to know if OTHER uncut men experience the same difficulties.
First off, I've had sex only a few times without a condom. I hesitated unprotected sex not because of the usual, but because i didnt want each penetration to pull my forskin further back and eventually expose a large portion of the head of my penis. This turned out to cause pain! At least i think, because its only happend a few times. So, is it ok to keep having that happen, where the whole head gets exposed as the skin is pulled pretty far back? Youll notice the forskin is attached to the tip of the head, and thats whats causing pain i belive. It begins to get really tight around the shaft, and it looks like the foreskin could snap! ouch. So yeah, I had sex without the condom, and when i pulled out it was totally exposed (the head) and i was like "holy shit thats not good". I hadn't see my dick like that ever before. so it took some effort to get the cover back on. IS that a good thing to happen to uncut guys? Because now, I always use a condom to avoid that, it actually freaked me out, and i didnt want the head to get stuck while the foreskin was pulled down like it was. (it begins to look like a circumsized penis)

On the other hand, masturbation is fine. The only down side is if you masturbate too often or too rough, you can damage the foreskin and further masturbation must be delayed until it heals back to normal.

I'm hoping to get some feedback as this is the first time i've raised this issue!

Finally, if bug_men says that all woman prefer a cut penis, and knows for a fact that its more pleasurable for the woman with a cut dick, then maybe he should check his inner gender.

 

does cut/uncut penises really matter to the majority of women though? I bet most of them dont even care.

Its silly, really.

 

well if you have to use condoms its better to be cut, but thats a sacrifice im not willing to make. Luckily me and my girlfriend have only had sex with eachother and shes on the pill, so for me theres nothing better than being uncut and just doing it bare skinned. Its great. And she enjoys giving me bjs sometimes, I dont know what triggers it shes just ocationally in the mood to. All i have to do is wash it right. But it is true, condoms wont work with an uncut penis all that well, the moving skin tened to make them work their way off from me. And it hurt too.

I do remember when my cousins and i were at the pool and we showered afterward how they were making fun of me for it. They were like "what not man enough to roll it back" like they didnt know they had been modifed, not just grown that way.

Im very glad im uncercumcised, i think its part of the reason me and my girl almost alway cum together, which is the best natural feeling in the world.

Also i hope those couple guys who keep getting so mad cursing at everyone dont come in here or get banned, I guess they really have a lot of pride in their penises and cant take someone saying how theirs is is good.

 

I don't know for a fact, but my guess is that younger girls, teens especially, only want to deal with a cut penis because it's all they will see in a porn film, magazine, or in other pictures. An uncut penis is probably "Weird" to younger girls cus they dunno what the hell is up with that crazy looking dick!
Maybe when females decide to not care about it, however long it takes, will they really not care about it!!

 

guess thats why it worked out well with us, my girlfriend never saw a penis even in porn before she saw mine.

 

Man, I had no idea circumcision was so conterversial...

 

like i said, a penis is a penis..
i dont sit and gaze at a penis, i use it for other things..

 

yes but when you use it doesnt skin that rolls or stays in place and slides make a diference? And also cut guys it seems cum faster acording to what ive read.

 

Oh, that occurs much more frequently when your circumsized. 3-4 times gets your penis sore and if you continue you chafe the skin.

It is; it's unnecessary mutilation to an infant that can not even give the consent to whether or not they want it. I am unhappy about the fact that my parents decided for me when I couldn't tell them otherwise; and this was about 2 years ago I started to feel this way.

 

ahhh wonderful, yet another circumcision thread to make me feel like theres something wrong with me. that my parents are evil and they cut me and now im a mutilated freak who cant satisfy a woman. GERRRRRRRRREAT!!!

 

i completely expose the head on mine all the time (im uncut), and i have never had any problems. i dont think it matters much if you do that.

 

The truth of the matter is that circumscision is a form of control instituted by the Hebrews to distinguish them from "regular" Arabic peoples. Until pretty recently MDs rarely even asked if the baby would be cut or uncut because they preach that it is a cleanliness issue. They would just lop it off. Noone ever asked me if I wanted my hood or not? (Im cut and pissed about it!) The foreskin is there FOR A REASON..it is an extention of the shaft used to create a "seal" during intercourse and keep very essential lubricants from evaporating...(i think thats what was trying to be said)...and the myth of the cleanliness is that you will grow funky shit in there and you got to clean it all the time. The fact of the matter is, an uncircumsized penis' glans and underneath the prepuce (sp.?) or foreskin is unkeratinized skin...like underneath your eyelid and the prepuce is to protect also. I feel that when this is removed the glans is left to the elements and eventually become keratinized and less sensitive not to mention unprotected...somewhere in the subconscious men must have anxiety because of this when their natural protection leaves their manhood outside like that. Thats all just wanted to say my part!

 

oh boy. like mystical said, a penis is a penis. as long as it gets the job done.

is that even true? not to throw out wrong information, but everyone said uncut guys are more sensitive, so doesnt that make it easier for them to cum?

 

If sensitivity is the issue, and uncut guys are more sensitive, then wouldnt it make sense that its easier for uncut men to get off? Hmm, you could have a race with your uncut friends and find out.... :X

 

My bf is uncut and I expose his entire head all the time. It's possible your foreskin is on too tight My friend's bf apparently had that problem, but it was so bad that it would occasionally bleed because it was too tight and it got pulled back to quickly and.. BAM, a little rip was made. *cringes in sympathy* I don't have a penis but I can only imagine how shitty that must have been. He went in for surgery, and is fine now.

But yeah, with my bf, soft, hard, in the middle... I've always been able to completely expose his head and there's never been problems putting it back etc. When he's hard, his dick head is exposed all by itself. (Though, if I try gently, I can manage to pull some of it back over). He's never had a problem having sex with me either. Like most men, prefers no condoms. (To adress that foreskin in the way of condoms thing, he's never had a problem with that either. When he's hard, most of the skin has been pulled taught because of the added length.)

I suggest going to the doctor for a checkup, mention your tight forskin and see that he has to say. As far as I know it shouldn't be too tight or painful at all. You may elect to get a small surgury to loosen it a little, (like my friends bf) so you're dick head will be able to come out and enjoy the world with the rest of us!

 

pure innocence is right. your supposed to be able to pull the skin back (never seen porn of an uncircumsized guy?). i remember when i was young my mom explained that i had to pull the skin back everytime i took a bath to stretch the skin because i would need it to do that when i was older (i never really questioned why)...at any rate as i've said before in multiple circumcision threads, i latter in life was circumcized because i lacked that ability...however i've found there are a number of other less intrusive ways to deal with the problem.
as pure innocence mentioned you can get a tiny nick to loosen the skin a bit...there is also an even less evasive way using an elastic band to stetch the skin. talk to your doc, and he'll prolly send u to a peeny doc who'll explain to you a bunch of options.

 

Dead wrong on the mother thing !
When a child is born the foreskin is actually attaced via blood vessels to the glans - that's why it is extremely painful for a newborn to have his foreskin retracted. There is absolutely no need to retract your foreskin until Momma nature shows you that she is good and ready to let it happen. I never retracted until I was engaging in full sex at 19 with no problems (touch wood) whatsoever other than a tiny pinching my first few times. It's there for a reason - to protect your most sensitive bits - do not wash with soap or any strong cleansing agents - it's exactly the same thing for internal washing of women.
The penis is NOT a dirty thing - we just need to dump our old victorian attitudes here.

 

Kinkajou,

It is completely normal for uncircumcised men/boys to fully retract their foreskin. If it doesn't fully retract then you can't clean it, you can't masturbate, you can't have sex. I couldn't even take a piss if I couldn't pull my skin back.

The whole point of the foreskin is that it's there to be pulled back! Much like the whole point of an eyelid is it's there to be opened!

It is not natural for the foreskin to be retracted as an infant. When a child is born the skin is melded onto the head of the penis, retracting (or removing) the skin at this point is unnatural and can damage the glans of the penis. But as the baby grows older, the skin naturally loosens and it should retract more and more in time. By the age of about 3 it should be fully retractable, although in some cases this happens much earlier, or in some cases many years later.

But every teenage boy should be pulling his skin all the way back. Otherwise he can't clean it properly, and sex would be painful!

Uncircumcised men should look identical to circumcised men when their skin is pulled back.

Hope this puts your mind at ease.

 

a. i wasnt a new born.....if i can remember it, i was probably about 7 years old...so your statement doesnt apply.

b. it's nice YOU didnt have any problems with it, but obviously thats not the case for everyone now is it. you can't take YOUR experience and say all other opinions on what may need to be done are invalid because they don't cohere with the individual experience you had.

c.she didnt tell me to wash it with volitile 'cleansing agents' or abrasives when i was in the bath...i don't know about you, but i bathe naked. it's something we do around here. and when your naked seems to be a pretty good time to play with your bits, and pull back the skin.

so don't fucking tell me my mother was wrong in the way she raised me, or try to counter the praise she got from another poster because your mom was...

i digress. *deep breaths*