I get regular sex, at least 3 times a week for a couple months now. The only time I masturbate or ask her to masturbate me (though she's not as good at it as I do it to myself) is when she has a period. When I watch porn or get the urges and stuff, sometimes I masturbate by myself or in her presense but never to the point of cumming. I only masturbated once (in shower) unbeknownst to her.
I always masturbate when I'm in a relationship because I have yet to find anyone who can keep up with my sex drive.
I live with my girlfriend, we have plenty of sex, but when I wake up to go to work most mornings I'll have a quick one before my shower to pep me up from the day ahead. My girlfriend doesn't know I do this, but I'm sure the only thing that would piss her off is that she isn't there to watch me.
I have a pretty good sex life...but I still masturbate (love my toys too much) and I know my bf does...hehehe...I actually walked in on him doing it one night,he was embarrased for a second,but then asked me to help him get off! We both watch porn alone or together and I would say we have a healthy sex and masturbation life!!!
i mastorbate with my partners all the time. its healthy and hot. sometimes i dont even like to have sex, i just like to watch them get off, which gets them off even more, which gets me off... woah, i need a shower.
I'm not sure I understand why one would ask the other not to masturbate while they are in a relationship. Somtimes the other isn't around and you need to get off. Hell just tell them you think of them during it. "Naw, naw baby I was thinking of you!" I've masturbated in almost all of my relationships. I've watched and been watched. Masturbation is great because who knows what pleases you better than yourself? It's just like as was said earlier..."it's a little gift I give myself" You can be completely selfish when you masturbate all you are thinking of is yourself...and sometimes you just need that.
Why not do both. A lot of people don't live with their partners and maybe even interstate. Masterbation lets you take the edge off when they are not with you. What, are we supposed to suffer?
I'm currently in a relationship and we have sex on average once or twice a week, but I know I at least still masturbate (though I can't exactly state how often, it varies week to week) and I know that he did for the first few months of our relationship. I'm sure he still does, though I don't know if he has in awhile because he shared a tiny camper with a friend for almost a month and just recently moved out. I think it's hot that he does...I like that. And I don't really care if it's to porn, but I'd much rather it be to me cybering with him or being there in person. I know it bothers him that I do because I can do it better to myself than he can to me, but at the same time I know that he's the best at masturbating himself and I'm okay with that (come on, who better than yourself?). I'm sure, though, if we had sex everyday, I don't think I'd really care as much about masturbation.
My girlfriend varies a lot in how much she wants to have sex, sometimes over five times in one day, sometimes not for a couple of days. But either way i still masturbate fairly often, its fun, and really i think its how i learned to have good controll over when i cum, like a lot of practice runs before i ever really had sex. And masturbating together is a good one to add to your collection of sexual activities you do together, the more the better i figure.
I love masturbating.... alot of times I prefer it to sex. Its all about ME ... lol Don't get me wrong, I love sex too.... but I think everyone masturbates no matter what.
It's like the leftovers you take home from dinner at a good restaurant.You open the fridge later and damn,you can't keep your hands off it.
I have given up masturbation, I promised my wife I would. I have been very faithful to this promise, with one slip up a couple of months ago. She has this nice soft, silky nightee and early one morning, I was rubbing it all over, it felt so good, but so I didn't cum on the sheets, I ran to the sink and poured the cum all over.... Smile, but since then I have not done it. I think about it, it is an interesting topic. The thought of women masturbating is a turn on... When I was single, I was masturbating about once a day... I would light some matches, because I find the smell of matches a turn on... Even now when I am married, making love to the smell of matches that have been struck really invigorates me...
i think i masterbate MORE when i'm in a relationship. it makes me horny pretty much all the time. and hey... when i'm horny.. gotta do somethingabout it. lol
People masturbate! When, with whom or without, how, where, et cetera is unimportant. As the sun rises and sets daily on schedule, people masturbate!
not sure about women but scientific fact is that guys masturbate more often in a relationship than when single .testosterone levels are higher ..reminds me when i was a kid .i was at this restaurant type teen hangout and the owner asked some kids why they were mocking another kid .they answered that they had found out that he jerked off ..............he answered "is that all ?? 99% of kids jerk off ...the other 1 % are liars " applies also to married or in a relationship men
We both still masturbate, but usually its a solo thing. Sometimes it freaks me out a little when I see the kind of porn he watches...I know that sounds stupid, but its like the irrational part of the brain makes me thinks somethings wrong with me (or him) because he HAS to look at porn to get off