Friends With Benefits

Yes, I have been involved and currently (but mildly) involved in a friends with benefits relationship. I personally haven't had any problems and enjoy my relationship(s). But like most posters said, it's fun when BOTH partners know what they're doing. Which has fortunately been my case.

 

Well so far its going well, we meet about once a week and have our fun. Plus its better than being alone!

 

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No problem Pansy, I will post here about what happens. Tomorrow were are going to drive around on the back roads, maybe even go mudding since its suppose to rain. Then back to her place for some fun.

I love to drive down the dirt roads around here, getting out and seeing whats new and collect rocks. Once and a while I find one with a fossil, so bring it home!

 

Well I just got back from my friends place, and we had fun! 7 times as a matter of fact, and this was her not me! So far so good! We satisfy each other!

 

That made me giggle

Anyway i agree with the people who said its too difficult to separate love, emotion and sex. I never understand why anyone would ever even want to...especially women. Why be used by someone you dont really know, only to be left feeling cold and cheap, when you can do it yourself without all the degradation? Because it feels like youre close to someone? Thats emotional attachment. Its not worth it, i say.

 

Well I found her G-Spot! but you have to use all 4 fingers, and the girls love it!

 

Actually Verseau, I have known this woman as a friend for 15 years, so we do know each other. Now she wants to shave me down under, should I let her, sounds cool? She is always shaved, and now she wants me to, I will most likely let her.

 

Well she went to the doctor to see if her cancer was back, that means no sex for six weeks, but I can wait. She is my friend first, and my lover second! I will stand beside her through it all, I do what I can, right now just cuddle and watch movies!

 

Heheh, kinda sounds like a girlfriend situation to me.

But good for you, man.

 

If that is what it turns into it wouldn't be a bad thing! I have been hurt before and a little gun shy of relationships. I spend a lot of time alone working, so I don't see that many people, the computer keeps me in touch with everyone!

 

chuck norris doesn't sleep, he waits

 

I am afraid you are correct! They don't understand, that that the agreement was not kept, and now she has feelings for me! So what am I suppose to do?