Hi to all, I'm new on these forums I was busted a few weeks ago for posession. My court date is in a couple of weeks. I am 17, and in my state, that means I will be tried as an adult. I'm not too worried, our lawyer said I will probably not be convicted. But, now my parents are going to test me and they've lost all trust in me. I don't have cool understanding parents like many on here, even though both my parents used to smoke pot themselves. I still have a year and a half in this house. Anyone have any success talking to their parents about this kind of thing and changing their minds? I truly believe that I was busted because I had to smoke somewhere where my parents couldn't find out. It'd be great if I could talk to them or somehow gain that 'it's ok if you do it just don't be stupid about it' deal. Any ideas?
Just try talking to them.. or point a gun to ur head telling them to meet ur demands or you'll pull the trigger.. either one sounds good
Umm... say that you won't take the test... they can't force you... and if you get convicted you will have to take tests, so i'd say wait until the trials over to start shit.
They decided that pot was not OK for them to use. I doubt that you can convice them that it is OK for their baby. It sounds like you have 3 options: 1)Stop smoking. 2)Continue smoking and become a liar. 3)Move out.
like ^^ said its going to be hard to convince your parents to let you smoke, but you can try getting some studies and use that to back you up. Good luck
lol worked for me...but tell them either way your going to get tested because there is a big chance you will be seeing probation after court, and that means testing time....and they cant force you....tell them you stopped(which you will have to do anyways for probation) and that it doesnt make sence testing you if you just got caught, so no shit you been smoking and going to fail it, so yeah...hope that helped
or point a gun to ur head telling them to meet ur demands or your going to blow urself away... <--- it probably would work or just simple strait talking.. ur under there roof.. live by there rules.. or lie to them that always works.. unless like you'll feel guilty
Yeah.....you're already in a spot of trouble as it is. I'd say make some serious amends at least for the time you've got left in the house. Living by their rules for the time being might be a better option than any form of mild to moderate rebellion.
Well considering that you are probably gonna be going to drug and alcohol evaluations for being caught with drugs, the STATE is going to be drug testing you, so theres a pretty good reason right there to quit, wouldn't you think? But as for the tests your parents are going to give you, they will be pretty easy to fool.
hehe.......i'd just fuck with them, be like, ok i wont smoke anymore.........then stare off and dreamily say to your self something along the lines of "hmm......coke and heroin only take 3 days to leave your system" that'll fuck with em, they'll either worry to death or spend a fortune in drug tests
Ok ok ok, I got a solution that will put an end to all this! Do drugs that wont show up on the tests man!!!!! lol im a genious... and stoned
