Attention

I really hate it when my bf pays no attention to me. He is too busy on his computer talking to other girls to care about me. I can stand behind him and start kissing his neck and things like that and he'll just say, "I'm busy", or ,"I'm not in the mood right now". Sometimes I just want to slap him as hard as I can and walk out. Maybe if I leave he'll understand how devoted I am to him and how good he really has it...but then again, he probably wouldn't have time to think about it while he is talking to all his online girlfriends.

 

Dump him!

 

douchebag
not worth it.
could go on forever......but must restrain myself.

 

Hey vamp, your boyfriend wants to cheat on you but doesn't have the balls. Get him liquored up enough and his eyes are everywhere but locked onto yours like they were when you two started, I'll wager.

If you think he's bored, do something to spice it up.

 

I'm not sure how to spice it up though

 

Give 'em the boot. He sounds too immature to be in a relationship.

 

listen, this may sound harsh...but if your always around he will never miss you. I know its hard on you but sometimes the best thing you can do is not be so available. He will realize what a huge part of his life he is missing if youre not there.

 

Shit vamp, if you don't know how to do that, I can hardly blame this dude for looking elsewhere.





think lé kink.

 

if you feel he is talking to other girls online, play his game.


make up another screen name, fancy it up and IM him and say your someone he might know but doesnt personally or make someone up and start talking to him like you want him. ask him if he has a girlfriend, get indepth with him and try to find out if we wants to do stuff sexually with you.

if it were me, id definitely get out of that relationship before everything goes downhill. fo sho.

 

I completely agree. My boyfriend and I were starting to be together all the time and he stopped being so affectionate and loving after awhile, so I took one day and the only contact I made with him was sending him a text message letting him know I wasn't going to be around and then I hung out with my friends instead. The next day, I spent half the day with my friends and met up with him towards the end of the night and it was amazing how much his attitude had changed. Though I definitely suggest more than a day, because a lot of guys really freak out when you get too clingy. If spending some time away from him doesn't change his mind and make him realize how much he truly enjoys your company, kick his ass to the curb and find someone who does appreciate you or spend some time appreciating yourself.

 

Well, I can blame him for looking somewhere else. We are both into bdsm and we have pretty much done everything short of scat and piss play (which neither of us are into) so there isn't much spice left for me to use.

 

*shudders*

TMI

 

annie, just shush, it's only bdsm. there are far worse things out there

umm... unplug his internet connection whenever you go over

have you guys done much with roleplaying? Trying to pick the other up in a bar/wherever as if you didn't know each other? Tried buying a new toy/ropes/cuffs/harness/whatever the hell is in these days to play with?

 

I'm going to have to play the bullshit card. I doubt very much that you've done anything close to perverted.

Just straight up don't believe you. S'alright. Punch him in the mouth next time he's about to blow his load.

Trust me.

 

It's my opinion...I don't like it...and I think it's gross. And I'm by no means a prude.

 

then avoid the thread, it's as simple as that. you now know it contains information you don't find interesting, there's no need to continue creating negative posts about some peoples choices

 

What was negative? All I said was "*shudders* TMI" and then posted in reply to your comment.

I was stating my opinion...

 

Ummm, what does BDSM stand for? :&

 

Stands for Bondage, Domination, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism.

 

Oh, okay. Thanks Annie. I figured that the SM stood for sadism and masochism, but I wasn't sure what the BD stood for.