I love a girl

Calm The Fuck Down!

 

I'm seeing her tonight so could some one please give some advice.

 

Could someone please say something. I didn't see her last time but I should be tonight so could someone please post something.

 

please reply. I only have about an hour left

 

please reply

 

you really, really need to chill out. You're still very young and whilst your feelings might seem overwhelming and blinding, you should calm down and stop panicking about it. It doesn't seem like she's interested, and even if she is a little then she's not worth your time, you're to young to have your feelings played around with. I'd say let go and concentrate on other things but I don't think you will, so maybe you should sit down and talk to her and ask her what she wants. We need to make mistakes sometimes in order to learn from them

 

Here is what I say, play it completely cool man. Act like you are interested but not too interested. Dont act like your mad at her but dont be overly nice to her. That is what she wants. Im not saying to be mean to here maybe she just doesnt need to be treated like a princess. Afterall, she did tell you she hated you!!! WTF IS UP WITH THAT. Okay well just be nice to her and dont act too interested. Dont play hard to get, just make it a bit more difficult that you have been. Treat her well and see how it goes from there. Make progress as you feel the need but not too fast.

Dont let her think that she is so important you you dude. She will play with your emotions and spit you out like a piece of gum. Make it seem like she is an option and not a priority. If she digs you then start treating her a little better but dont fall in love so fast.

 

You both are so young...it may not feel like it but thats a very basic fact here.

Sounds like she's fickle and enjoying the attention that being on the edge of womanhood will get you.
Maybe she is one of thse kinds of people that enjoys the chase, the challenge of getting noticed more than staying involved with anyone. Not abnormal and lots of young people don't know what they want enough to maintain their focus long enough. I would just stay friends and wait till she catches up to you emotionally before you put too much hope and effort into anything too serious.

 

Jai has told me that she no longer wants to have any furthur interaction with me. She won't even talk to me or look at me anymore.

 

Good! cus seriously you sound like you need to focus on other things. Not many girls want to be smothered. I dont care how old you are. If your seeing her ALL day and she starts ignoring you. Maybe you should jet out when she starts ignoring you! Why be there if she is ignoring you? Are you just furniture? Go out and date LOTS of girls. And her too if she wants! Have FUN. If you arent having fun then why do you want to be with her? Are you a glutton for punishment. Truely. If i got burnt everytime i stuck my hand on the stove I should ask myself why the hell i keep doing it?????

 

good point. i'll keep that in mind

 

Yeah, don't give up. Afterall, as a female, I can say it is wonderfully nice to see that a guy isn't giving up (..but not being a stalker )