involving marijuana. I myself have never done any drugs, but my boyfriend is really into pot. He never really tries to get me to try it, but I know he'd like it if I smoked with him. Should I try it?!?! *sigh*
not if you're not sure. you shouldn't smoke because of him, even if he asked you to do it. but if you really thought about it and if you wanna try it, then do it.
If your happy without it - why bother? You don't need it. There's often alot of pressure to do something just cos everyone else is - having said that if your'e gonna try somthin it's better to be with someone you know well or who would look after you if something went wrong - any kind of drug has different effects on different people depending on your character/metabolism.I don't smoke it cos my imagination is pretty vivid as it is - smoking intensifies those thoughts and for me has a negative effect.My cousin on the other hand eats it for breakfast.
I say: do it. But that's because I'm high. Honestly, babe, if you're not completely 100% A-OK with it...don't do it. Wait 'till you're confortable with the situation. Dig?
Well for me I always had an urge to expand my mind and whatnot so it's not surprising I got into psychedelics and lady jane. I would say just trying it to satisfy your curiousity won't hurt but that decision lies in your hands.If you don't feel comfortable doing it then it may not be for you.
i asked this in tha "lady jane" thread (but it wasn't over a younglady peer), and because i am pretty young, and just curious to feel it they said to wait a year, but you look older than me so by there standards you would be okay(the majority of them said to start round 14-15) they also told me to wait untill i was sure i wanted to because i had all these concerns of what may or may not happen. Some said try it see if you want to continue, others said wait or don't some flat out said don't do it. all in all its up to you. i am going to either wait a little while or not do it at all
man i say go with it. try it. its not ganan kill you i mean if u dont like it, then dont do it again. but ya know, its alright to try it. do wat u feel comfortable with. peace~
I suggest you don't try till you get out of high school. I did it a little when I was a senior. It can get in the way of studying. If you are trying to learn, like school or college, then pot is not an asset. Don't get me wrong: I love to get high; it's just a matter of where and when . But for me the foggy effects kinda last a long long time, for months I notice I am mentally slugish. Try it, but when you want to expand your mind, not because your boyfriend stones.
the best advise i can give is go with your gut feeling, intuition can be a power card to play and sometimes subconsciously your giving yourself these little clues for a reason.
I'm gonna say that if you're curious, then give it a try. I was always curious about it before I tried it, and it has helped me be more social. Before I started smoking pot I was a bit depressed and I couldn't talk to people I didn't know as much. Now I have a better outlook on life and have made a lot more friends. Smoking pot is a way to bond with people, it brings people together. Just try not to let it take over your life and have fun.
i think you should try it. it won't hurt you, physically or psychologically, to try it once. and if you like it, it will be like you've found another half of yourself and it'll be beautiful, and help you to understand who you are. if you don't like it, you will be able to say that you know it's not for you.
I agree... you can never be 100% about a decision man ... and i dont see why youd ever wanna be.. take the thrill right outta life. I say just go with the flow... and forget about waiting till you get outta high school... im in advanced placement with a 90% average and i smoke pot nearly every day(H)
I'm all for trying new things, but if your boyfriend is really into it, chances are it'll become your "thing." I'm having relationship problems right now for that reason--I used to smoke all the time with my boyfriend, but I don't like the vibes around him and his friends when I smoke and get really anxious, so I don't do it with them anymore. So naturally, they're always out smoking, and I'm always chilling in my dorm room, and we don't hang out very much anymore, and I'm kind of the "outcast" since I used to smoke all the time with them and now I don't. I guess what I'm saying is that if you DO try smoking pot, don't let it become a huge part of your relationship with your boyfriend, because things could go bad. Good luck with whatever your decision is! ~Nova
