Is EVERYONE a little bit gay?

but to reproduce is the only real thing sex accomplishes.

 

If that's the case you ain't doing it right.

 

Yes, but sexual orientation has more to do with attraction, not reproduction. A person at a bar who wants to do a really hot chick he sees dancing isn't thinking, "I want to reproduce with this fine specimen of woman and raise fine children." He's thinking, "Dayum, that ass is so hot it will probably burn me."

 

I've never found myself attracted to another guy sexually. I've never had any fantasys about having sex or doing anything the least bit erotic with another guy. I've never enjoyed any male on male porn and I have looked and watched some. So I don't know if I am a little gay or not. In terms of attraction I'd say not. I wonder if I'd enjoy making out with another guy. I wouldn't pass up the opprotunity. I guess theres a little curiosity.

 

actually if you get into the real causes of it all its the drive for sex (sigmund freud) that you really want. yea there is pleasure but in truth is not ment for pleasure. it is abused this way. sex is a way for reproduction to take place. society and culture has shaped it to be a social experience.

 

i am doing it right i enjoy sex just as much as everyone else. but i do know the real reason behind it.

 

Well if by a little bit gay you mean...thinking guys are attractive sometimes, yes. But I don't find them attractive in a way that I would act on, as I would a girl. But I can just tell if a guy is good looking or not, just like whether a fruit is bad or not...I don't like rotten apples. Yuck. Well I just ate a rotten apple, so that really has nothing to do with this. Anyhow my brother is gay, and I'm not, but ...umm..I lost my train of thought.

 

maybe...cuz once i was something like in love with a girl from my school ( it think she liked me 2 hehe),now i`m not he

 

WORD!!! hahahaha

Personally, I NEVER even glanced at a guy till I was 30 years old. For me it was a matter of getting rid of some walls that I constructed.
I was in the prosess of throughing out some old rules that had been handed down to me from previous gererations, and from society. Suddenly, and shockingly I found myself fantisizing about Dudes :&

Still never acted on it (I'm not single) but the possibility is there.

So I say yes, I think many of us are a bit bi, if we let ourselves.

 

eh, who cares
just love, be loved and have sex.
even if it is not in the name of procreation.

 

No, but there are about as many purely straight people as there are purely gay people... It's just that if you have a slight attraction to the same sex, but a major one to the opposite sex, it's easier to ignore than if it were the other way around, or with no attraction to the opposite sex.

 

I Was Until The Gasoline Prices Went Up! Now Im More Like A Big Black Mean Lesbian Detenction Guard At A Federal Prison.

 

I'm not really sure about the answer to this I mean it is possible, but i doubt you would get certain people to admit to it any way so we will never know. On instinct I would say yes from a personal perspective. I am straight and married, but would rather watch/fantasize/read about lesbians than heteros to get in the mood etc So of course I personally would say many straight people are attracted to same sex they just don't voice it. and many gay people may be attracted to the opposite sex, but don't want to voice it.
love.

 

i completly agree! well said

 

straight people are gay!

 

Yeah, younger people tend to experiment more often that adults, usually more often in college than not. But people tend to lean one direction more than others as they get older.

 

I don't think my Dad is a little bit gay , and if he is, I wonder if Mom knows.

 

If you ask me every orientation is based on presentages. I mean I'm 90% or more for guys and just wee bit for girls. I notice girls and like ya know boobs haha but if I was ever going to do something with one it would never be serious.

 

it is my belief that i am a gay man in a womans body

 

apparentlly even a straight man fantisies about a man at least once

(came from a unreliable friend so im not sure if its true)