Well, i got head for the first time a few days ago. It was with this girl i'm not going out with, but we are like best friends, we've had sex once before, but shes never blown me before. Well, she did the other night, it was her first time doing it. It felt AWESOME, but after like 15 to 20 minutes i couldnt finish, and she got tired and stopped. She feels like she sucks at it, which maybe she does, but i dunno how to tell because shes my only, and i think its my fault, because i was just so distracted, and not like in the mood, although, as i said, it was awesome. We were in my car, i was worried someone would see us, the radio was on, and it just kinda put me outta it. She feels horrible, and so do i, and i just hope that when she does it again, because she says she wants to try again, that i can finish, and not get sketched out about it. So, what happened? What should i do? It really kinda messes things up.
Some men don't cum from oral. Some women are bad at oral. A number of things could be to blame. I say, try it again and see what happens.
Ditto. When I first started I had NO idea what I was doing, and was still able to make my (then) boyfriend cum right away. The only time I've ever had trouble getting a guy to cum from oral is when he's had a lot to drink.
Try biteing the head gently that can also help men orgasm,the more foreplay they have the more excitement!
Dont feel pressured to do it either, just enjoy it and dont have in your head that you have to cum, cos that just makes it harder. So relax, maybe touch her too and just enjoy it no matter what. 69 is a great idea.
but, sometimes there may be some shit in the ass, how do you do? even if yo clean it or wash it, your hands will...so? tell me what to do.
