Plenty of foreplay, and maybe the good kind of talk before/during getting down to business. I believe foreplay is the key, go until neither of you can wait any longer.
stick your nose in and hum...while moving your nose up and down. that always works. your best bet is just asking her what will get her off.
I would love to cover a girl's mouth with my hand while I shag her. But I don't think most girls would like that, they might feel like they were being forced.
Quote: I would love to cover a girl's mouth with my hand while I shag her. But I don't think most girls would like that, they might feel like they were being forced. Well, that is the thrill for some ladies, but you should verify that first to see if they like to play like that. I certainly haven't done that with everyone I've been with
i think different girls like different things.....one thing may drive a girl wild while that same thing may just turn another girl off.....i think you just have to be open to different situations and communicate......
I would suggest that you use your tongue and lips..... to ask your female partner what she likes. It's as simple as that.
I think it would be kind of cool... Just like once, though....to say I did it. It wouldn't be as fun if you did it all the time.
Most girls don't tell you straight up what they want to be able to orgasm. They may not even know. So you need to be able to read their body language. First thing, with oral, you need to go lightly. Women are more sensitive than men. Their clit is much more sensitive than our penis. Get her warmed up. Lots of hugging and kissing and cuddling. Aim to spend quite a few minutes just kissing before you go anywhere near her breasts or pussy. Then slowly work your way down. Her nipples first, her stomach, her thighs. Then her pussy. She should be aroused by now. Just lightly stroke the side of her clit with your tongue. Hold your tongue soft, not stiff. And a light pressure. Read how she is going. If she presses harder into your face, you are too light. If she pulls away, you are too hard. If she is getting really hot and wet and squirming and moaning, just keep on going. Don't change the rhythm or the pressure. Your tongue will get sore, your mouth will ache but keep on going. It is worth it in the end. Mark from Australia
If your strong enough, do it holding her and standing. If you don't really work out it'll kill your legs. Basics you should cover is a lot of ass and tit touching. Not grabbing, but rubbing nicely. Lots of it! Caressing thighs near the pussy with a nice touch will drive her crazy! Also while doing it, rub the top of the clit......drives my wife crazy. Also ask her, she'll tell you what drives her crazy.
i'm not into being choked, bc i'm scared it would knock my windpipe out of alignment. i'd rather have a hand over my mouth and holding my nose at the same time. also, ask her, you might have a naughty freak in your hands. she might be into all kind of shit you never even dreamed of, opening up all kinds of possibilities...damn, i wish i could meet a guy that's a freak in bed.
I like it! but if some guy i just started having sex with did it, i wouldnt like it, but with someone who loves you its great! yeah i love it, its like acting like your being forced, but u want really want it anyway
hmmm maybe you should get your mind off making her have an orgasm and try and have fun.... because being all tight and gross when your going down on a girl will only lead to a long time of you just laying there... be free and explore, if she can tell your having fun it willl make it a lot easier for her to "get off"...just a thought paul
Well, for foreplay, you can always go with the oral clit stimulation and stimulate the G-spot with your hand... It takes a bit of cordination, but I'd think that it would make a girl come.
hehe, my boyfriend had to do that last weekend because I 'pretended' that I 'wanted' to watch the movie before we do anything. I also insisted that our clothes stayed on. He proceeded to arouse me by licking me from my neck down to my pussy while telling me to 'keep watching'. When we finally proceeded to sex, it was absolutely mind blowing! it was orgasmic in every position that I couldn't control my vocals. I even begged him to not cum when he was about to explode because I wanted more. Because it was a Sunday so all the neighbours were in and he told me that I had to be quiet (we had been complained to before)but I couldn't. I told him that it wasn't in my control to be quiet. In the end, he both kissed me or had his hand over my mouth to muffle out the sounds. Having your guy's throat in your mouth while you want to scream was hmm... something that heighten the oragasmic feeling... Forced but so sexy too... so I like that
