Unsure...

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by artemis_wolfang, Jul 19, 2004.

  1. artemis_wolfang

    artemis_wolfang Member

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    I'm a little unsure about my sexual orientation... I am a girl but I think that both guys and girls are hot... I was mildly turned on by Christina Applegate in "Anchorman"... :confused:
     
  2. DazedDreamer

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    i think its normal, i mean there are some pretty hot chicks out there, lol, dont even worry about it! and hey if you do turn out to be bi sexual, oh well, theres nothing wrong with that! (i wouldnt judge you):p
     
  3. artemis_wolfang

    artemis_wolfang Member

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    Yeah, I know, but I'm not sure if it's real or what. I don't really know what being sexually attracted to someone feels like...
     
  4. butterfly

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    Erm...do you fantasize about having sex with (or even just kissing) another girl? Can you imagine it happening at all?
    If the idea doesn't freak you out then hey, you just might be bisexual!

    And remember it's perfectly normal for straight girls to have crushes on, or find other women attractive. It's just if you find yourself thinking more and more about becoming...involved...with someone of the same sex then you might need to accept the possibility.
     
  5. artemis_wolfang

    artemis_wolfang Member

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    Yes... but... umm... I don't really know what being sexually attracted to someone feels like...
     
  6. pandiebeer

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    I'm older but just recently have been wondering the same sort of thing. I'm in a serious relationship with my boyfriend but lately some females have really turned me on. I've always thought of myself as straight but I can't help the way I feel. But in all reality when I think of what it is that brings on those feelings, for me, it's more of wanting to be like those women because they appear to me to be what sex and being sexy is all about. If I were to wonder if I would like to kiss them or whatever I really wouldn't. Finding them sexy, hot, or attractive really has nothing to do with wanting to have something sexual go on with them. I think you just need to find out what it is that turns you on. Maybe it's that you simply find them attractive, maybe you even wish you were them, or maybe there's a deeper attraction. But it could just be that you're like me and you find them attractive simply because of their sex appeal.
     
  7. Defence_mechanism

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    then dont worry! forget about labels for now, and just go with the flow. feel whatever you feel and make a decision later. :)

    its ok, everyone feel attraction to the same sex some time or other... just some more often than others! lol
     

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