I know you're supposed to bleed the first time (assuming you're a girl), but my girlfriend and I keep on bleeding... not every time, but it's pretty inconvenient and a little frustrating. Why is this? Are we cutting each other (fingernails perhaps)? Is it a bad thing? If anyone has any knowledge on this rather strange subject, please let me know. Thanks!
Maybe she's too dry? Try lube, i guess...Does it hurt? Maybe she's too sensitive. And do you mean you bleed to? I don't know what's goin on then...
I never bled until my fourth, and biggest boyfriend/sex partner. I had never had anyone that big, and he really kinda hurt the first few times. I talked to a friend about it, who just so happened to have the same problem with her husband and she suggested K-Y warming lube... that stuff is awesome. If you're only using fingers, I really don't know what advice to give... If you're using toys or something, it may be related to not enough lube. If you have long fingernails, you just might be scratching each other... maybe being too rough... maybe you should try a dildo or something different... sorry I'm not much help.... I've never bled from being fingered but it was always with guys with short fingernails.
