What is it they say, it's better to regret doing something than to regret not doing it? Fair play to you, at least now you know.
Your point is taken, SelfControl, but just for the record, I don't regret anything. He was very cool about the whole thing and very sweet--no pressure the whole way. So I learned a little more about myself and that's cool. Thanks for your help.
This entire post made me laugh. Even though I'm openly gay, I get the more flamboyunt gay guys to give be bjs like all the frigging time. I give like nothing back and you totally made me feel like an asshole for doing that, but in a sort of funny way since I'm laughing while thinking that I'm an asshole. Does that make sense? Whatever. I'm glad you got your thrills.
Those sort of skills are useful. They're a good way to get irritating-but-attractive people out of your life as soon as possible (after orgasm, obviously).
Exactly. And it's not like I'm objectifying them completely, I'm just well, using them I guess. Well, it's more like they want me to bang them, so I just oblige and then they're gone.
You're doing what they act like they want you to do. And if it comes to it, guys can take it. One of the upsides of the double standards is that very few disgruntled male sex partners will cry rape. [/massivelybadtaste] Anyway, there's nothing wrong with objectification if it's mutual, which in our cases it almost certainly is.
Anytime I suck cock,I don't really want the guy to suck me in return. If he wants to I let him but it's not much fun for me if a guy's sucking me. I much prefer a woman to do it. But just something about sucking cock & making a huge wet mess dripping down my chin onto my chest turns me on. And the thing is,I don't even have to get off right then & there,meaning I won't even masturbate while I'm sucking him. I'll let him cum then when he leaves I'll go jerk off while thinking about it. I guess it's just playing a role that gets me off.
Mmmm I fucking love that. When they make me their own little personal cocksucking whore. Call me names & what not.