Okay...so I talked to a friend of mine, and he says I need to vent, so here it goes. What was your worst break up ever? I'll start... When I was six months pregnant, I went to my sis's to babysit her kids for her. When I came home, my boyfriend had already moved in his new dog-faced bitch, who I didn't even know he had been seeing; I don't see how he had the time. I beat the eff out of that girl, and she couldn't even touch me....I was pregnant. The sorry bastard. He could have told me we weren't working out, let me move out, then move psycho bitch in, you know? lol
Beating up the girl has never made any sense to me. Beating up the guy would make a lot more sense logically, seeing that it was he who betrayed you, not the random chick. To each his own though.
^Agreed. A guy I'd been dating for a few months had gotten really chummy with a good friend of mine. I got off work early one day and found them in my bed doing the deed. My friend was a guy. Lost a boy friend and a boyfriend. And then of course, there was the added humiliation of them moving in together. I sure know how to pick 'em.
wait a sec, he moved a chick in while you still lived there? WOW! i gotta figure this out, im always nice and chicks hate me. im sorry but thats like unthinkable. you want i should go hurt him, or should i just tell you silly things to make you giggle?
I would have to say one of my worst break ups was when I found out my boyfriend already had a girlfriend (and was therefore cheating on her with me). I was so heart broken that I never spoke/saw him again. So, I guess the "break up" was never official, but I'm sure the bastard found out why I cut him out of my life. The pain, however, was overwhelming.
I remarried about 10 years ago to someone significantly younger. All she wanted was a child legitimately. I built her a nice house in the burbs, bought her a new car, got her a job with my company, gave her the baby she wanted. Came home from work one day to an empty house. Completely empty. Like, we had moved out. Only she forgot to tell me. Let me do the math: $1600.00 mortgage payment + only one income + major credit card debt - child support payment = bankruptcy. Yeah, breakups suck.
My worst breakup? Well, I never really dated much, but when I was 13 years old I was "going with" this gorgeous, conceited, cocky-as-heck boy who I was really nuts over, as well as just about every other girl was too. Well, he gave me my first real kiss, was the first guy to ever hold my hand, and he told me that he loved me. I thought he was serious. Little did I know that he said that to all of the girls, didn't mean a thing to him, but it sure as heck did to me. At that time during my life, I had no type of relationship with my father. I just wanted a male to show interest in me, to hug me, to tell me he loved me. Bad combination, I mean, boys that age aren't looking for everlasting love. Anyway, I went over to his house the one day to visit, and he took me into the garage and unveiled this painting he had done. I said Joe loves Heather all over it. I was over the moon. And then he kissed me, a long, slow, loving (so I thought) kiss. Fireworks! I left his house that evening on cloud nine, happier than I had been in a long time, only to get a phone call about an hour later from his FRIEND who told me that he wanted to break up. I was crushed, seriously. I know I was a young kid and I know I was incredibly infatuated with him, it wasn't real love, but I guess I was just really attachedto him because he had been my first real kiss, the first one to ever hold my hand, and the first one to ever tell me that he loved me. Vulnerable, I tell you. Anyway, I was so desperate to get him back that I offered to give up my virginity so that he would stay with me. One of the reasons he broke up was because I didn't "put out". Put out?! At 13?! I mean, he was the same age as I was for crying out loud! But as he considered my offer and it seemed as though the two of us would get back together, I finally realized just how stupid I was being. So, I told him that I wouldn't be able to do it afterall. And that was that. We didn't talk again until 3 years later when he called me out of the blue and wanted to meet me at the mall. Why, I don't know, but I told him I couldn't. I mean, I was thrilled when he had called because part of me really wished that he wanted me back (yeah right!) but I was not about to go meet him after 3 years. That, and I had a new crush. I ALWAYS had the problem with guys breaking up with me because I wouldn't have sex, which was one of the reasons I rarely dated as a teenager. I was one of those chicks that always seemed to fall head over heels (now realizing it was simply due to issues with my father and desperate to feel loved) I always wanted a long-term relationship, I envied the girls that had boyfriends for years when we were in high school. But everytime I started "going out" with a guy, as soon as they made moves on me and I refused, or they found out that I was a virgin and had no intention of giving it up until marriage, I was history. Dumped. Bye-bye.
that sucks! man you were pregnant what a sleaze. My worst ever break-up would have to be this guy Andrew. I was 16 and he was 18 and he called my mom crying the night I broke up with him...and almost everyday after that. He would have his friends call me to ask why I didn't 'love' him anymore and then it moved on to him throwing rocks at my bedroom window at night-meaning he had to climb around the house to the side yard and hop the fence into the back...he was a freak his insesent tourment went on for almost a year. We were only together for a couple of weeks too.
I had that problem and have that problem now. The only times I've ever been broken-up with have been because i wouldn't have sex.
I love my son with everything that I have in me. I feel like I am a wonderful mother. I don't yell around him, smoke around him, just mother him. lol
Ouch. That sucks horribly; you have got me topped by a million. I hope to God I never have to go through that.
