I started working at this job about a month ago and I got to know everyone at my work, one particular person was this girl. I am very attracted to her and I thought she shared the same feelings until one day when she was off work she came by with her boyfriend. So I thought "oh, I just misinterpreted some wrong signals" but she kept sending me signals over and over on the following days. When I mean signals I mean things such as "giving the eye" and she will often lean against me and touch my waist. Now I am afraid its just because of the way I look because I am physically attractive(I dont mean to be conceded but its true). I didn't pursue because I work with her, and I wanted to keep work and my personal life seperate, but then I heard she is quitting to get another job. So here's my dilemma: 1. She is not going to be my coworker, so that's a plus. 2. She has a boyfriend ATM, so that's not good. 3. If she is willing to leave her boyfriend for me she might do it again with some one else, so that's not good. 4. She is extremely beautiful physically, emotionally, and mentally, and thats always good. So should I go for it? and if I should, how should I go about it, because she has a boyfriend and I don't want to piss her off.
That's all you need right there, so go for it, but you gotta talk the talk; walk the walk, nome sayin'? You have to be a swave mack daddy to get the hot chicks. And if you don't get her, don't worry about it, ight. There's other chicks around; try them all.
And there is the EXACT reason why you don't touch this girl with a 40 foot pole...attached to a 50 foot pole. Shes a dirty skank...sorry to say it. If she does this to her b/f, she will SURE AS HELL do it to you. Stay away.
No, she should go for it anyway. He might find out, but it'll be fun until then. And so what if you're not the only person that he dates, it's called free love; get used to the concept, it's the method of modern love.