I know I've joked about becoming a porn actress before, but because of a previous bad experience, I've never allowed my boyfriend to film me. Well, Stephen's parents are getting him a new video camera for Chirstmas and I just know he's going to want to put it to use in the bedroom. In fact that's probably why he asked them for the damn thing. I've given in to pretty much every sexual demand/desire he's ever had--and quite frankly, I've done more for him than most girls would--but this is too much. I don't want to tell him "no" after his parents spend a few hundred dollars on this camera, and I can't very well ask them not to get it for him. Is there some way--and this is what really concerns me--to make sure I can destroy the only copy if I need to?
tell him that if he wants to videotape it, it will be on the condition that as soon as the curtain comes down at the end that he hands you the tape (or dvd) straight out the camera.... and then you can either destroy it, or keep it in some secret place to bring out and watch whenever you two feel like it.... then he can feel like at least you're making steps towards making 'home movies', and you can be sure that no one else is watching it...... just don't hide it in your underwear drawer... that's the first place i would look
I let a previous boyfriend film me while doing bondage and stuff. And I know for a fact that he showed it to some of our mutual friends after we broke up. I was absolutely humiliated.
does your current bf know about what happened? you would think that if he knew that then he would understand why your a bit hesitant about doing it again
Tell him that you do not want to be filmed unless the tape or DVD stays in your possesion afterwards.
lol sounds like Mission Impossible! This porno will self-destruct in 5 seconds. My god that gives me a business idea: self-destructing, non-copyable video tapes specifically marketed to couples who want to experiment with this sort of thing but are worried about the tapes getting out later on. They would have a timer, or better yet - a remote denator - that the girl gets to keep which will permanently desensitize the tape's magnetic strip at any time.
I'm sure that some method could be worked out so you would have complete control of the video. My thought is that (from other posts) you submitting to his will is part of the two of your's sex life. How does you having control of the video fit in with this? Or (put another way) if you retain complete control of the video, would he want to take them? Further thought-Your submitting to him shows that you trust him now (or at least for the next few hours). The video requires trust forever. Would that explaination help you tell him "no"?
Well, we put the new video recorder to use last night...he wasn't exactly thrilled when I told him my conditions but he went along with it once he realized I was serious. The recorder is actually pretty cool; it records strait to DVD so you don't have to hook anything up to the computer or DVD player. Anyway, I told him I would do anything he wanted, but as soon as we were done he had to give me the disk so that I could put it away. He wanted to start putting the movies on his laptop and I told him no fucking way, that I would be keeping the ONLY copy, period.
After your previous experience with being taped any reasonable guy will understand the conditions you have insisted on. Just remember to keep insisting on those conditions and not let your guard down. I once saw a tape where a guy hid the camera while he and his girl were doing it and she did not even know they were being taped. The worst part is that she was married and next thing her hubby was hearing stories about his wife being a porno queen. I never found out how that whole situation turned out but I am sure it could not have been nice.
Before he even asks you tell him you want to film him jerking off. Make something up like you want to use it to get off when he's not around. After you film him convert the video to computer format and send it to an email that you keep secret and tell him you have it, but don't let him know how to access it. This will be sort of a non disclosed blackmail. If things start getting rocky remind him of the video and he will remember that you have the video and will not risk you posting the video on the internet by using any film that he may have of you. If he does, send the video out in mass emails, set up and internet site, post the video and mass email the link. Make physical copies on VHS and mail them to his family and all your friends.
A little stiptease, some nervous laughter, and a blowjob. The only thing unusual was he had me open my mouth for the camera before swallowing.
i had a blowjob video but i deleted it straight after we were done ( i was high and way too paranoid) actually it's too bad i didn't keep it, i'm sure it was pretty cool