Hey! Just wana ask older people a question, well people who are older than me at least. Do u hav a friend, lyk a real friend who u can trust, who always got ur bak and wuldnt turn his to u. Like is it true that it is hard and nearly impossible to find a friend like that?
Friends like that are the very best thing in the whole world. A wealth of riches beyond any coin. Even if you have not seen them in years, it all comes back when you can finally get together. The wealth of shared experience, over the long term, is priceless. Good friends trump posessions, travel, status, anything. I am with my spouse since 1977. We are truly friends first. Our first date was a World Series game. My oldest friends since 1966. When I was 10 yrs old. I feel real close to my co-workers, present and past; and will do anything to help. Mutual appreciation is the glue for workplace bonding. Having emotional rapport with co-workers makes working excellent you will love your job. Being cheerfull and of good nature takes work, its a part of self controll. Loose your ego, so much more will come back to you. Peace.
Well Im only a little older than you but I have 2 people like that..and they are my only friends really (and one is my fiance)...but the one who isnt..like we werent even really friends at first but over time we grew alot closer and now liek ayear later we can tell each other everything... I think it is hard to have that because when you do (at least in my case) you stick together so much it kind of alienates other people sometimes..but even more so its hard because it means you have to trust someone and you have to learn the hard way if the person IS your real friend like that.... does that make any sense??
Yeah, you have to be careful in this "day and age." People are only out for themselves. The friends I made in highschool, I absolutely have their back. I would spend my life savings to bail them out of jail or whatever help they needed. But I would also give them a lecture for getting themselves into that predicament in the first place. Consider yourself lucky though, you are smarter than your parents. Learn all you can and do as much as you can while you are still young. "Youth is wasted on the young."
