my husband wants me to have another man

my husband has been hinting to me that he would not mind if another man "as he said did me" aslong as he can watch and i give him attension too.
i am open minded and even offerd to do it with another girl with him if the right one came along but now this is starting to sound good having two men take care of me is making me wet just writing this.
should i go along any thoughts?

 

That seems pretty unusual, is he lazy or gay?

sorry that wasn't helpful, id say that it would harm your relationship, but i cant understand the workings of a relatioship where either of you would want to do that anyway.

 

why cant people ever be fucking commited to one person


peace
chickens

 

yes thats what i cant understand, if you love someone how can you stand to have sex with another, or watch them have sex with another, let alone enjoy it?

 

I think its a fantasy of his,that he wants fullfilled the more i think about it the more its starting to mine too, im sure i can haddle two guys just for one night of fun

 

if your both comfortable with doing this...then go for it

 

sorry double post...ugh

 

Love is a many splendored thing, right? But you're relationship must be very strong to permit it without undesireable consequence. The intial turn on and excitement of the "fantasy" situation could lead to potential jealosy and resentment between you when acted upon. So you would need to be very sure of your feelings and place with each other first. Talk about it openly, set limits or boundries if any. Ask if anything might bother the other about it. When you're certain things between yourselves won't change and the fanstasy aspect remains in proper perspective... then sure why not? ~7

 

Just do what you feel! Personally I have had a girlfriend that I only wanted to hang out with, I was there to listen to her, go shoping with, and hang out in clubs and I specifically tried to help her get picked up by guys all the time! I told her that I was a Lazy ass and that I wanted nothing to do with kissing/sex with her (I allowed her to fondle me a few times) but it turned me on to watch her get picked up by a strange guy... I'm not gay just lazy.

 

You should do it if you both really want to, but make sure you talk about it with him beforehand. He might think its 'hot' now, but you don't want him changing his mind later and resenting you for it. Make sure you have all those issues cleared up before you go for it. have fun.

 

thanks for the info, i told him last night i was ok with trying it he said great, ill post what happens when it does

 

well i did it , and i want more last Saturday my huband invited 2 of his friends over for a bbq, after the bbq and a few beers later my husband told me to give them bjs i said sure figuring he was bluffing but he never protested those guys did everything imaginable to me i still cant walk straight.

 

Come on, give us more details. Specifics!!!

Pictures help too !!! LOL

 

Wow, well, just remember, if he starts to get jealous about it, too bad.

 

well how the heck do you fiund a good guy to do this with? My girlfriend wants to try a threesome with another girl, but we cant find a girl whos willing to, and who is close enough, and all this other stuff that would complicate things.

 

well it was two guys from his work i only met a few times before at xmas parties,. i just got into it with 1 guy bj then the other and my husband stripped they did it all to me the best was having one doggy while i blew the other being the center of atension and be used like a slut turned me on. my husband just sat back at one point and was telling them what to do to me.the next morning was even better i was brushing my teeth when Kevin came behind me in the bathroom and he licked my ass the put it in , sheer pain turned to unreal plesure i let him dump his spunk in me too. im gonna do them all again soon.
my husband hasn`t taking his hands off me since .

 

but i cant understand the workings of a relatioship where either of you would want to do that anyway.[/QUOTE]
Pablo, thought you couldn't dig it!
I don't think I'd like to share with my friends quite that much. I'm more into a one on one relationship!

 

I sense a letter to penthouse.


I don't know if i'd want to have a threesome myself. My girlfriend's the same way. Just not really sure.

But if it works for you: what ever floats your boat

 

that's just kinda too kinky to me....i mean i am pretty much up for anything but as for having another partner added to the man i love....i dont think so....but if you really think you want to then go on ahead

 

mebbe they just wanna have fun and get jiggy with it guys...

go ahead lady.. you only live once.