Make no sense. And more then that they are so crazy. I am so torn on understanding mine. I think it is best if I just forget about trying to view her as a human and just as my crazy mom. When was the last time you had a fight with your mom and was called ingrateful or lazy, or anything negative for that matter? But then in a few days it blew over and things went back to acting like nothing happened. I also would like to add I hate when you fight with someone and you act like nothing happened!
thats like me and my mom.. she's ALWAYS right.. no matter what. it's gotten to the point where we don't even talk about "anything" .. just fluff. the woman makes me nuts.. i'm sure i make my kids nuts
See I can't hold superficial relationships like that. Something's on my mind, I am saying it. Like, metalic balls are cold in the winter.
stop yer bitchin,,, n count ya blessings that ya got a mother for the times when ya really need her,,,, even when our moms and us dont get along there are always times when ya say in ya head,,, wish i had a mother or mother figure to talk to.... ya just dont realize it til ya aint had one for ten or fifteen years...
Oh I am grateful for my mom. I was just bitching thats all. I love her more than anyone in this world..... and thats saying something.
my mom told me I was impatient, but I did deserve that........ I dont ever recall talking back to my mom.... but I could have when I was in highschool or even younger..... I would never do that now.
My mother does the same thing to me. I am going to try to raise my son differently, you know? I don't want him to feel degenerate like I do at times.
Anyhoo--- enough nonsense from me---just trying to help BTC hit his 420th post so he has something to celebrate. I have nothing very constructive to add to this and be on topic as I don't have a mother-son relationship with my mom... we're working on being friends & that's about it.
I'm pretty lucky. My mom and I are extremely close. Oh sure, we've had our times, but all in all, it's all good. We're more like friends than just mother and daughter.
Ben weighing possible responses... I suppose "thanks" for starters. Lotsa history here & I haven't completely sorted out what belongs in the "TMI" and "opening new wounds" categories. Besides, a major belief of mine is that life is an infinitely uneven playing field- deal with it. Alot of mistakes were made in the past and I'd like to be able to learn from them- one indirect reason I've defered taking on the "dad" role.. wanna be sure the potential mom I pick is a good one.
You know, I don't think that has ever happened to me with my real mom, but my step-mom and I used to always argue when I was younger, but now that im older we get along better. My step-dad always said negative things to me.
Minimum once every couple months on a regular basis for the past 8 years...... I used to not just drop it and act like nothing happened. But life is too short to hold grudges against my crazy mom.
