be or not to be...together?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by MalyEdus, Dec 31, 2005.

  1. MalyEdus

    MalyEdus Member

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    I got a new point of view at the "relationship" between me and my ex-bf. Well, I find it quite funny that we both agree that we love and attract each other, but we do nothing 'cause we know we are totally different personalities so it would be a relationship without future.
    But is this "doing nothing" right? If we could be happy together just for now, wouldn't be this better?

    Love, Edith
     
  2. lindseybug

    lindseybug Member

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    yee yee.
    well.
    i edited this. just because if you know who found it.
    i might hit a nerve or something
     
  3. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

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    An ex is an ex for a reason.

    Move on.
     
  4. lindseybug

    lindseybug Member

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    :O\
    move on. hm. i mean if you're both up for trying again. fixing what was wrong the first time.
    idk. im up for working things out instead of just giving up
     
  5. buttrfly)i(

    buttrfly)i( Member

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    i wouldnt waste time when you could be out there looking for someone that would totally complete you and make you feel like you could spend the rest of your life with him.
     
  6. MalyEdus

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    You mean you are beginning to feel love from it now? If yes, I think it won't take a long time and you will be together in a while! I cross my fingers for you :)
     
  7. MalyEdus

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    I don't say it is totally impossible to think about "our future", it would be about compromising, but I think he isn't much prepared for that now.
     
  8. MalyEdus

    MalyEdus Member

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    The problem was that I wanted to be with him more than he could give me 'cause he has lots of activities - as he admits more than he can manage but he just can't give up anything. So he said "not being together" would be better than being angry with each other that we don't spend much time together.
    But I (and also he, as he said and wrote me) feel that a part of me is missing that part of him and vice-versa.
     
  9. lindseybug

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    i just found out....
    that i was viewed more of a best friend than anything.
    and it kind of was closer for me.
    kind of.

    i'm gonna try and move on.
    try to stop viewing him the way i do cause i will only end up hurting myself
     
  10. MalyEdus

    MalyEdus Member

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    There's nearly nothing about boys that DOES make sense :confused: ;)
     
  11. lindseybug

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    yeah.

    they dont care to explain themselves either.
    " i reallylike you. i do. but it;s not working"
    oh man boys :D
     
  12. MalyEdus

    MalyEdus Member

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    Okay, things have changed a little bit :) We talked to each other...and we are together again! It feels like starting from very beginning.....

    Lindsey, and what about you two? Is there something new?
     
  13. lindseybug

    lindseybug Member

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    aw yay! i'm happy for you and your darling!
    nothing new. nothing nothing nothing. but idk we'll see.
    he's away...well in his hometown right now soooo.
    but i doubt anything will happen between us. i had hope before but i'm kind of ehhh about it now
     
  14. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    Hi Lindsey, I'm Lynsey :) hehe there's soooo many of us. I know it's cool name but prents need to stop naming their kids that!
     
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