there's this girl in my class. We got to talk the other day and we have really similar tastes in music so I invited her to go to a gig with me. We've been out once since then. I sort of like her but I'm not sure if she likes me back or not. I can tell she likes my company cos she was happy to go out with me last week, but I dont know, she's not really expressive, well, i juts think i have to get to know her better i guess. i made the mistake of making out with a girl right in front of her (i was drunk and the girl came on to me...i promise!) well, when that happened I just said to her..."well now you know i'm what people would call...bisexual"..and she said, "yeah me too" I actually knew that, we were talking about bisexuality the other day and she mentioned something but i pretended i wasn't listening.. the thing is this girl seems a little different to other girls I've met. she said she's been diagnosed as clinically depressed and i'm completely the opposite of someone with depression...anyway, I do like her but i find it a bit hard to show it anyway, she texted me today to say goodbye. She's going home for the holidays. Shall i give it a go or not?
I'd say go for it! If you like her then you can see how it all goes, and even if she dosn't like you then you can still remain friends. It's better to have loved and have lost than to have never loved at all! ^_^
I say totally go for it. I did once, and it totally paid off. It was hard, yes. You never know. And it's true, you only live once. No regrets.
I think you should go somewhere with her again and see what happens. I was in the same sort of situation a few mths ago myself. I sorta liked this girl, ive known her a few years. I met her through some gay pals, she wasnt excactly a friend of mine, but i knew her through friends..only see her when i was out with my friends.. When we were all out nights she would stay back at our flat sometimes.. at the time i wasnt out about being bi, but me and her would sit in my room and talk constantly, like for hours. one of the guys mentioned it etc too that we always talk for hours on end. Well anyway one night i told her when we were in a gay club about me being bi.. which was wierd sorta cos that was the first time id been in a gay club just me and another (gay) girl.. n not other ppl. we just talked and danced etc.. that night she came back to mine and she slept in my bed(this had been the 2nd time or summit shes shared my bed).. nothing happened though.. but dunno shes the type not to make the first move.. n im defo not the type really to make first move.. so it was just sorta strange... she stayed the whole next day and most of the next night.. i was goin to say she could stay another night, but was too scared oo.. cos i enjoy her company etc.. but we argeed to meet up later in the week to go see a band.. we seen the band then went to gay pubs and clubs.. again nothing happened though.. i liked her but wasnt quite sure if she liked me.. but i was too scared to do anything about it. bahh
