Lube. And relax your ass, for God's sake. Buttsex doesn't hurt unless you're dry and tight like Mother Teresa's ****.
im presuming hes using his cock, get a toy or something smaller, Some peeps cant take big things, babe
LUBE nothing original about that and play with your clit at the same time at least that's what i do, and i don't feel any pain
That's what twelve year old boys use when they "experiment" on each other. Definitely not what you should use for anal. Get some astroglide or something meant for buttsex. I hear they have desensitizing lube. Sounds terrifying.
i dont like the idea of anal, its an exit not an entrance. and i dont think i will ever warm up to the idea as i get older, it would just make me feel gross.
A little help from the drug fairy Better to do it drug free as you're more aware of how you are feeling and what feels good/bad etc. That's the main reason why people try it in the first place, to see how it feels. It makes no sense to change the natural feeling and reaction.