Hi peeps, i need your advice with you all be inparcal, and not knowing me, Right im on the lifeboat over here in the uk, Well, one of the crews wife joined a few months back , Now we have joked, flirted ect but nowt more than anyone else, Well on friday we had the crimbo party, well this lass and i ended up telling each other our feelings, and doing the deed, Well the next day i text her and said, what was that, and she ttold me word for word what she did the night before and that she meant it, and i did the same, So we both have strong feelings for each other, heres the problems , She is married Her Hubby is a mate We are in the same voluntree organisation as each other, She has kids, We like each other, So what should i do, i realy dont know. HELP HELP HELP HELP
Accept that you SCREWED UP and RUN HARD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION Tell yr mate that you riveted his spouse (from afar, mind) cause he deserves to know his missus is a cheating cow.
14yrs of marrage and its the first time shes cheated, bud s not bad going, mind im the younger model so to speak
^^^ YES! Esepcially the first sentence volunteer somewhere else, asked to be transferred to a different set of volunteers or something, ANYTHING to NOT be near her
thats a bummer man a lot of things about this situation is fucked up, obviously the main problem being that she is taken...and there isnt much you can do about that one. talk to her about it.
....and you know this how? Oh, because this model of virtue told you so? Yeah...and we all know SHE wouldn't dream of lying. Sorry dude, but I think you are falling for a bullshit story there. Sounds like she's probably been fishing around for her husbands replacement and its highly doubtful you were the first one she banged and I'm sure not the only one she has flirted with in an inappropriate manner for a married woman. What will you get if you end up with her? A woman you cannot trust behind your back and the burden of an instant family.
my dad is doing this right now..what a perfect example right?? well he is married and so is the girl he is running around with. They havent had sex yet but they sure get kissy face. He says he feels like a schoolboy again.blah blah blah. Im really mad that he wont just divorce his wife because its just not good and if she feels as strong as she says she will divorce her husband. And they live happily ever after. well maybe she will realize that she shouldnt be with that punk and that she feels stupid for not being with you
it never stops amazing me that you can fuck a guys wife, yet still call him a FRIEND. You aren't his friend, dude... you are the asshole that fucked his wife. She isn't innocent either... but you have to be personally accountable for your behaviour, and not pass the buck along.
.....eh? How is her husband a punk? They have been married for fourteen years and have kids. Maybe he should be the one to wise up, that his wife fucks around and take the kids and dump her slutty ass and let her screw all the younguns she wants. Sorry but I have issues about people in relationships (that aren't open) screwing around. Fix the relationship or get out and do whatever you please and if you get into a relationship with an untrustworthy person, what the hell have you gained? Nothing worth keeping in my book.
in the words of a wise german .. . . duumfukka. you are a dumb fucka. married does not mean interested, does not mean seeing, does not mean temporarily enthralled, it means mated for life. you seem like a dumb piece of shit. anyone can get laid, but if you need to play upon a married woman's psyche to get off, then you my friend, are the scum of the earth.
RUN!!! DO not get more involved in any of this!!!! Once a cheeter always a cheeter. I mean what do you expect to happen? That she dumps her husband, gets together with you, tells her kids this is their new daddy and you think the husband is just going to be like "ok"? There are sooooooooo many people in the world.....why do you need someone who is already taken. Think about if you were married and your wife went and fucked one of your friends.....what would you do then? Would you just say "ok" and move on? - I think not! Good Luck! And by all means stop fucking her/flirting with her/anything with her!!!!
First of all let me just say congrats on nailing a married chick, that rocks. Second, as we like to say here in the south in the U.S. Head for the hills my friend. Seriously though, i would try to keep your emotions at bay and say hey, we had fun, but lets try not to go there again. You probably still save your friendship with everyone if you cut it off now before you get too involved emotionally. If nothing else think of her kids. It will be a trainwreck.
