Wanting to be with someone who is already engaged!!

I have a problem that I have never encountered before, I have met a girl about 1 year ago and I am falling in love with every aspect of her. It is the firsttime I have felt so connected yet the problem is she is engaged.

She talks down about him to me like im a GF but while I have all these confused emotions about her. And I think she may feel the same way but can say anything as she is engaged. And I am worried to tell her as I feel it will affect our already strong friendship.

I know that there is nothing i can do about it other than hope she breaks up with this guy who she has been with for years, but I feel guilty about feeling that way.

I am also just generaly pissed off that the first woman I am this attached to is already with someone.

I know writting here may not get any advise but If you have an opinion please tell me.

I also just needed to tell someone, and where better to blow off steam than a cool site like this where nobody juges each other

 

thats a difficult situation... i have acually been in the situation before but i always just end up not liking that person anymore. I know that what you are going through is hard but give it some time and maybe it will go the way you want it. or try dating other girls, it might take your mind of of her untill something does happen.

oh and have you tried telling her how you feel...i know that a huge step but that might be her ticket out of that relationship she has if she is feeling the same way!