First love

thanx

 

Its very easy to get over it, all you have to do is be very young and marry them! ROTF! I have alot of fond memories but after a point it was time to go. Thank gods the first love is rarely the best. Love gets better and deeper with time as people grow emotionally, spiritually and mentally. Some are lucky enough to grow together but as a young adult(?) its rare.

 

i kinda don't agree with this
i remember my first love
and i've always felt i truly know what love is
i loved this girl
but she didn't love me, that doesn't mean the love i had for her wasn't true
because it was, and eventually she broke up with me
so i stopped loving her, mainly when i realized (and was smart enough) to see that she didn't love me
now i do believe that, if not necessarily the first, there is always one person that you've loved at one time in your life that you'll never forget.

 

hahaha

So very true and I couldnt have said it any better...

 

I'm still in my first love

 

So very true!

 

I know that time heals all things
but I feel like time kills all things bad about you

- Ryan Montbleau

If I have ever truly loved someone, I love them forever, even if I never talk to them again - not just first loves, all loves.

and on the same note, yes, I feel you get over first loves, second loves and on and on - you're heart will always love them, but you move on and know that they're not that true love that you're going to find that lasts forever. when its over its over - some it just takes a bit longer than others to get fully get over, especially first loves. First loves are special, but in the end they all become special in their own ways

cheers to the next love though - don't dwell on the past

 

i dont know/ I feel so cynical about love today.
there are people we can get to love intensely
but it doesnt mean that they are the love of our lives

I've loved people but i'm so over them now.

 

i was about 13 when i met my first real guy he was 16 so i thought it was cool that he was so much older than me we talked for 3 years i am 16 now and hes 19 but during that time he took everything from me... ya i was in love i guess you could say but people grow apart and move on, but thats life

 

Im still madly in love with my first g/f. I love her more than anyone I have ever thought of feeling for. Its been 5 years since Ive known her. I guess I was just hoping that I would stop loving her soon b/c it hurts so much not to be with her.

 

aww... (hugs)


i hope it gets easier mistress...

 

Experiencing love in the formative years for me has left a place that will always belong to him. Too many 1st's transpired between us for me not to allow the memory to exsisit. It was not meant to be for us later in life together as adults. It is better that way but I do still harbor the feeling of past love and he appears in my dreams all the time. But his appearence is always strained and rushed and tainted, that is our reality. Persistance of Memory is a bitch Dali had it right.

 

no, real love never dies

 

I thought that love goes away, that it always fades. It made me feel better about my current predicament, which was and remains that I'm in love with someone who I let go out of necessity nearly a year ago.

But then when I pitched the idea to my mom (leaving out my personal dilemma, though), she told me about her uncle who was engaged to a young woman right before he was called up to go to WWII. He couldn't return for years. Even after the war ended, he was stationed in Alaska and couldn't leave. When he finally did return to his hometown in Massachusetts, he found his fiance had married another man.

He never got over it. He dove into the bottle and remained a heartbroken, depraved, raging alcoholic until he finally died.

This makes me fear that love never dies. I'm afraid.

 

Well Im getting back together with my love. she is so amazing...and I guess Im going by "If you cant beat em join em". I love her so much. Many of my friends are angry with me for getting back with her, but I dont care. Its really none of thier business. This is my life and I have to live it not them, and I wanna live it with her. I think that we are both older now and have a different perspective on life and on eachother, and we realize how lucky we are to have these strong feelings for eachother, and I know that if we treat eachother with the love we have we will have an amazing relationship! Im going out on a limb here and risking my heart completely, but I have to do it because its killing me not too. I dont want to be thinking for the rest of my life "what if". So Im just doing it. I love this girl with all my heart, and Im going to show her.

 

never.
simple as that.

 

No, even though he was wrong for me and my life would have been a shitty mess if I stayed with him I still 15 years on think about him almost everyday. I have never felt anything as intense as the love I felt for him. I love my hubby dearly, he is good to me and a fantastic father but there is a tiny piece of my shattederd and re glued together heart that still belongs to him and always will.

 

Nope, no way. It was in primary school.... I was about 10 I think...

 

Yep. Got over it. Those who say otherwise need to examine themselves and stop holding on to fairytale romance psychobabble and learn to live.

All "love" is real. If you feel it, it's real. It's not fake.

People talk about love like it is some kind of objective thing, but it is an affection that one feels. It is subjective.

Love comes and goes.

I loved a girl so much I couldn't stand it back 15 years ago. I couldn't eat, sleep, work or do nothing but sit and stare her photo and listen to music, write poetry about her. Meanwhile she was sucking some other guys' cock and his friend. Yay me!

I learned a valuable lesson from that.

NEVER, EVER degrade myself, my dignity by sacrificing my happiness, my will, my world for a one powerful feeling I once had. Because there maybe many more powerful feelings you will get to experience later on. Indeed, it came back later when I met my wife, but it was different then. I respected myself. She respected herself. We respected each other.

Crawling up someone's ass and dying is the wicked kind of "love" that bites. Learn self-respect first, and then those you love will earn it.

 

I hope I always do. I met my first love when i was 13. I loved him then and I love him now. I have a hard time not being with him. Even though i know it would never work. But I must admit that "feeling" that i have for him is the most beautiful feeling. I try to forget the rest of the stuff that happened. It's past but that feeling of him drivin by or hearing his voice. Man my mouth went INSTANTLY dry and my tummy with butterflies. Not a feeling in the world to replace that. I saw him with my innocent eyes and he is the only man I can go back to and see with those same innocent eyes. I talked to him last about a few months ago .. im 31 now .. so its been a long time.. I do love him and I hope i always do but .. my life goes on and it is a good one without him.. but man that feeling.. yummmy