I love going to my dad's for christmas! It's like the ONE time of year that I get to see him and my sisters all together, I think it's awesome. Why dont you like being home for christmas? Or do you just not like being home at all?
yeah not at all hehe...and this yr everyone is here... it drives me nuts...makes me self loathe and loathe them more..and of course it doesnt help im pre-menstrual..
oo, yeah, having people in your space can drive me crazy too. Though it is nice to see family if you dont get the chance to very often, and especially at christmas, which is really a very family-get-together sort of time, isnt it?
well yeah if it makes u happy, but if it makes u unhappy than wouldnt u rather be with friends or partner who do make u happy?
well, friends and partners tend to go off to their families, and i'd hate to be on my own. That and I think my family would think I was deserting them if I didnt show up for christmas. Isnt it sort of n obligation? i mean, it's not terrible, in fact, it can be quite nice, but it's neccessary, right? But if it makes you unhappy, than I s'pose youd be better off not going home. But is it really that bad, going home? I mean, your family loves you, im sure, and it cant be too terrible, can it?
Exactly!! Spending christmas with the parents and other relatives is quite close to physical torture. I only come home for christmas because I know it'd break my mother's heart if I didn't and I don't wanna be that selfish.
I guess I'm odd. I love being with my extended family for the holidays. It's my favorite part of it all, just spending time with everybody. Sure, there are certain members that can grate on my nerves at times, but they're my family and I love them all.
I only enjoy being with my immediate family for the holidays. Home is the best place to be as someone said above.