As one homework in our seminars is, that we ask married couples to write onto the paper some matters about their own sexual relationship, and then to discuss about these matters. Some have written to us later, that "discussing about those eighth questions opened a new phase in our sex life..." 1. Your spouse does during your sexual intercourse certainly something of such kind, which you especially like. What? - You can mention at least a couple of points. (When someone does something right, he/she should be encouraged to continue!) 2. Can you mention of your sexual intercourse one matter, which your spouse has done, and which you do not especially like or enjoy? (Explain briefly why you do not like it.) 3. When or in what way you get most satisfaction in your sexual intercourse? 4. Do you do in your sexual intercourse something, which seems to bring about special satisfaction to your spouse? 5. Is there something, which you like, but which your spouse doesn't like? 6. How often would you like to be in the intercourse? How often your spouse seems to want the same? 7. When would you be in the intercourse most preferably? When least? 8. What you like most in your sexual intercourse? What you like least? http://koti.phnet.fi/elohim/help_to_marriage4
