Well, here's the situation: I'm a guy. I'm straight, straight as an arrow. However, there are some things which I would love to try... but of course being in a committed relationship with a girl it's quite difficult to do. First, I'd love to give a guy a blowjob! I don't know why, but that just sounds appetizing (no pun intended). Again, I have no desire to kiss or hold or be intimate in any other way with a guy... I just want to suck a cock. Secondly, I would love to get fucked up the ass, but only by a girl. Or maybe even just have a dildo used on me while getting a blowjob, or handjob, or something... My s.o. has no desire to have anal even in her own ass, she has a sort of anti-fetish for that (extremely turned off by the idea of asses in general), and therefore that's out of the question with her... So, my question is: do these things make me... bisexual? I can't imagine that I would be because the thought of kissing or being intimate with a guy is just repulsive... but then the 2 desires above certainly continue to linger. Anyway, just some thoughts...
It doesn't make you bisexual since that has to do with sexual preference, which you've already stated and seem sure of yourself that it's females. It is, however, fucking nasty and strange, yes...
Your body and mind are a source of great pleasure. If you think that you will enjoy it, go for it. (Consent, health & safety and all that good stuff of course.) Please do not get into trap of thinking that people fit into three boxes; "straight", "bi" or "gay." Enjoy your body by helping others enjoy theirs.
moh, your post is very nearly what I could have written about myself. (Except I'm not in a relationship with a girl, currently.) I am sort of "blowjob curious." I tend to think I would give a reallllly good blowjob, actually, but I don't want involvement with a male. I am not turned on by the thought of being intimate with a guy. I also kind of like the idea of a girl using fingers or a dildo in my ass. One girl actually did use her finger, and another girl I don't see very often (but did fool around with in the past) is living with a bi boyfriend and says that she uses a strap-on dildo on him. One time, on a yahoo chat, she asked me if that's something I would let her do (IF we ever fooled around again) and I answered honestly: yes. I'm also crazy about girls' feet -- I have a serious (and fun) fetish for feet. Weirdness is variety, and variety is fun! Don't be upset with yourself for wanting it. Blue skies, -Jeffrey
hmm well first i don't think it makes you bi to think of these fantasies. But if you act on them , then yes I beleive, by george you are bi. I mean i don't blame you to have these desires, dicks are very very nice , god guys are so hot!!!, ok im horny now, bye!!!
I agree, but I think if you're actually attracted quite a bit to one certain person and could imagine yourself ACTUALLY having a relationship (sexual or non) with them, then that could possibly mean you're bi too. But does it really matter what you are? Why don't you just...do who you do, like who you like, love who you love. No need to label yourself and confine yourself to that little box. You never know what you'll be 30 years from now so I don't see any sense in trying to figure it out now. Just...do whatever you please.
im kinfa blowjob curious to, seems like it might be fun to try, i think a guy could give a better bj than a chic anyday...
It's already been said; don't think of your sexual preferance as heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual. Just because you want to experiment with ass play and fantasize about giving oral sex to another guy doesn't mean your straight or gay; it means your curious and open-minded, which seems to be uncommon (or because they are all huge pussies) among guys. I'm not sure that I'm attracted to both men and women, but I do know that I like to play with my ass every now and then. Nothing like a little prostate stimulation...
I have never heard a straight guy say he wanted to suck a dick. I find that very repulsive but if you want to do it do it. But yes....that will make you bi. And if i was you i wouldnt tell my gf about this "fantasy".eww.....I dont even know very many females that like to suck cock.
There's nothing wrong with your curiousity. I ate a girl out once but I am by no means a lesbian. I didn't enjoy doing it but I'm glad I did it cuz my curiousity was ebbed afterward. Oh and.. I love to suck dick.. I think it's a turn on. I don't know... based on Megan's observation about women and b.j.s I guess that would make me the minority of women. If I were your woman I would definately let you suck a guys dick.. as I've always had a thing about watching 2 guys go at it.
Just because you want to suck a dick doesn't make you bi! That's ridiculous! Curiosity is just that-curiosity! If you already know that you don't want a relationship with a guy, then why ask if you might be bi? My partner doesn't like his ass being played with, but I wish he would loosen up about it. But then again, at 45 it's natural to be uptight about some shit.
I don't find it repulsive that he wants to do it, cause it's something that straight guys don't do so it's natural to be curious I think. I'm not sure how your girlfriend would take to it, cause I don't know her. I also want to add that I'm female and if I'm in a loving relationship I don't mind giving blowjobs- it can be quite enjoyable. I know quite a few females that don't mind/do like doing it. Summer. xx.
no it is perfectly fine to desire certain things and to want to try different things even if its one time. theres nothing wrong of that at all. honestly you should have a talk with your girl and tell her that you want to get theses things out of your system so that you dont desire these things later on down the road.
I suppose I need to learn to be a lil more openminded. I jus never have understood y anyone would want to suck cock..male or female...i do it only to please my partner...i love him so i dont care but as far as jus some guy to try it out on i couldnt do it.I am curious and have been curious about messing with other girls....i guess i have double standards. I am sorry if i offended anyone. If you are curious you should try it. Once doesnt make you bi i dont guess....
Just because one curious about fellatio doesn't mean they desire a loving relationship with another male. For example, my friend once gave me a very short blowjob when we were both masterbating; he lost his virginity a year or two later to a woman and hasn't made any advances whatsoever towards me. There is no doubt in my mind that he is heterosexual.
I wouldn't worry too much about what it makes you mate, as long as you're happy and getting on with it. Let it be man and you'll be a happier person for it. Do what you damn well please and don't answer to anybody. Good luck
When you're sixteen, girls (and guys!) tend to be selfish sexually, because for the majority of the time, it doesn't mean a damn thing. To me, oral sex is much more intimate than intercourse. I love to give the guy I'm with oral sex...I know it makes him feel good and to see him close his eyes and wince with pleasure. Squirm around when I do what I know he likes. THAT turns me on more than actual sex. So to say that you don't know anyone (male or female) that enjoys giving a guy oral sex, you either don't know many people, or they are all simply 16.
I tihkn you're just curious and there is nothing wrong with it. Just... don't force your love to do things she doesn't want ok? (if ever you get the urge to)
Like has already bee said, dont worry if you're bi or straight, or gay or whatever. just do what you wanna do. based on the fact that you said you find the thought of being intimate with a man repulsive, I'd say you probably aren't bi, but dont use those categories, and would it matter if you were?
hell no, just because your curious doesnt mean your bi, i'm curious too, i'd love to eat a woman out. you have to speak to ya girl friend about it, i told my BF that i'd love to have sex with a woman & he said that if i found a woman i was attracted to then he wouldnt stop me just as long as it sex. i'd be the same with him. you have to be open about your sexual desiers with your gf otherwise you'll never feel fullfilled! as for BJ's, i get turned on at the thought of giving one but actually giving my bf one makes my jaw & mouth hurt so i dont like giving them!
