I hate it when...

I'm with my friend and then someone else will come up to us and invite only ONE of us somewhere (like a party), but not the other.

In this situation, if I am the one invited, I always invite my friend (the one that wasn't invited) just because it makes me feel better. I don't like leaving my friends out.

It sucks.

 

shit man people be leavin themselves out .......not everyone you know n love will be able to manuver every situation that u may need or want to navigate .

 

Yes. I believe I deserve one.

 

I would like offer you a prize.

Please step right up and accept your prize for being the most thoughtful, inclusive poster of the day! Congratulations and enjoy your prize!!!

(my mother always told me never to exclude anyone and I'm also extremely sensitive to stuff like this. But let's not be hard on those who don't have this gift. It's not their fault.)

 

YAY! What did I win? What did I win? What did I win? I'm excited.


Oh, and you're right. It's not people's fault. Just because they are not as gifted and wonderful as you and I are, Smlchance.

 

I never really thought about it. It never bothered me, but I have been in situations like that.

Come to think of it, I dont know if i am guilty of said social rudeness. I might just be doing that myself. I bet you anything Ill do it and think about this thread and be like "oh, wel so and so can come too.

 

Awwww.... how nice of you.

Dariah. Making a difference one day at a time.

 

my goodness you are soooo cute. Your prize is being the most inclusive, thoughtful poster of the day!!! hurray!!! BUT wait...just for being so cute and asking three times (then clarifying with "I'm excited") ... there's more....you also get... all of my love and affection! (lucky you!

please enjoy your prizes! and treat them tenderly!

 

That's great! Thanks.

 

Hooray.

 

Sorry. I was almost at your house when I got attacked by a pack of wolves.

 

canadas wonderfull ive been there but i never wish to go even a thousand miles neer the boarder .....im fucking cold here ! you can freeze to death on a june evening in fucking canada .....and then those biting flies that populate the whole northeast .....black flies dearflies horseflys ,....millions of mosquitoes .......man thats a masochistic self torture ......all power to yas ....i could never see the frozen north again n id be happy bout it .

 

Thats kinda selfish

makes YOU feel better?

Maybe this other person doesn't want your friend there. We all can't be liked now, can we?

 

no but i grew up in the cold and seek never again to be cold ......

 

I hate it when
I fail at making xmas gifts... god I fucking hate sewing right now, AAAARGH

yar

 

Selfish?

I was speaking hypothetically and I wasn't trying to sound SELFISH. The point of my posting this thread was to sound anything BUT selfish.

And if someone is asshole enough to purposely (and openly) exclude someone else in that way (which is a very pathetic and imature way IMO), then I hope I do make them miserable by inviting my friend.

 

lol

I hope you saved me some cake, Cool.

 

Hi, Steve...

 

Wait

So if I was this person, I'd have to invite someone I don't like or someone I dont want coming to whatever the event is just for politeness sake? I dont think so. Its not immature or pathetic, I wouldn't purposley try to make someone feel excluded, but if I have to invite you infront of this friend, I would.

 

You're sorta making it like a pity invite, like you think it hurts their feelings (when more then likely it doesnt) and it probably makes them feel worse, ya know...Like you making it into a big deal when it really isnt...
I have people invite other people to do things in front of me ALL the time and it doesnt bother me in the least...and thats cause i dont care...I ask people to do things with me in front of other people...how the hell is that pathetic and immature hahahah thats funny
If I dont know or like someone, chances are I dont do stuff with them...its not hard to understand really...
But id rather not be invited then having someone pity me and invite me along cause they feel sorry for me...
This is just my take on it so dont get offended or anything...