ok, i really care about my gf, and tomm me and her are prob gonna have sex, ok, she doesnt believe in condoms, shes on the pill due to problems with her period, shes had the problems since she hit puberty, but any ways, i have NEVER had sex with out a rubber, im worried a) im not gonna last long at all(wich could become a prob cause shes super horny) b) im gonna cum inside her c) any other worries, or things that could become problems and i care about her so much, and i dont want this to be a burden i know worries can be the one thing that can completely ruin sex, but so can ^^^ that stuff. so guys, i know she doesnt have aids, or any other vd or std(tested), its kinda going against every thing i was told about sex (alwase wear condoms etc), she means so much to me, what should i do???(please no comments like fuck her brains out etc, im bieng serious)
So you dont last a long time, no big deal. Just be sure to give her lots of oral and foreplay before sex. You should be fine.
if you are worried then tell her you wont do it without a condom its better to be safe. if she don't like that then maybe you shouldn't have sex with her yet
Well, just be sure you are ready to have a kid if anything ever happened. Birth control pills are not 100%, so don't think those are going to be full prof. You know she doesn't have any std's......the only thing I see that could go wrong is she may get prego!!! BE CAREFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Do /you/ have any STDs? You said you know she doesn't, but do you /know/ that you don't? If you aren't going to use a condom, you should probably be sure you're safe.
yes i know for a fact i do not have aids/stds/vds, or any other genital or blood diseases, its more the part about getting her prgnant, wouldnt purposly cum inside her, but its still o concern cause im 16 and little stonr's running around is not some thing i want right now.
Cool. Well, enjoy yourself. And when it comes time to have "little stonrs" remember that's there's a half-million of them already being born every day and being shoved in little tiny orphanages around the world.
but c man, my girls not like that the second she turns 18 shes taking custidy of her little sister cause she doesnt want her to grow up in the envirnmont that she was raised in, and shes cristian and shes not reallt pro abortion, ill talk to her tonight about it, i would really love to do it, but i couldnt with out the worries, ill c how she feels about the morning after pill and if theres a slip up if she would be willing to take it cause its not really an "abortion" and my oms a teacher shes walked in and got em for several of my sisters friends that had slip ups at the yourger ages of 14etc so they wouldnt be sent to boarding school etc. but ill c how my babe feels about it, and ifnot i guess ill have find a solution, she said shed give up sex for me, but i dont want that, and i dont think she really does either.
OK IVE DONE SOME RESEARCH according to planned parenthood check out this info i found on planned parent hood's site and lemme kno what you guys think. **THE PILL** "only 100 women who use the pill ony eight will become pregnant during typical use, fewer than one will become pregnant with perfect use" **PULLING OUT AKA WITHDRAWAL** "of every 100 women whose partners use withdrawl 27 will become pregnant during the first year of typical use, of every 100 women whose partnerst use withdrawal, four will become pregnant during the first year of perfect use" SO, shes on the pill with perfect use, and if i pull out, there should be a very slim chance that she could get pregnant, i think i still might talk to her and see how she feels about the "day after pill" JUST INCASE there is a slip up. lemme know what you guys think. i could also try using a lube conatining spermacide, but i dont think lubes gonna be nessecary. thanks, stonr
^^^lmfao, no not her, i cut off all ties with her. this is a different person, and i care about her more than i really every cared about any one. i cant really explain it.
stonr, I wouldn't trust the pull out method because some studies say that even precum has enough sperm in it to get a girl preg and beside when you are in the heat of it, the last thing you're thinking of is pulling out before you pop your nut. condoms are not 100% fool proof either, a 14 y/o son of a friend got his girl preg becuase the condom broke during sex and he didn't know. what ever your decision, be careful, be good and if ya can't be good, be good at it.;-)
Your girlfriend "doesn't beleive in condoms". I'm not sure what that means. Does she beleive they don't work or does she have moral objections to their use or what ....? The pull out method doesn't work. Mostly because you won't pull out. (Yeah I know, but what you want now and what your head wants to do is different from what your body will want to do then.) If you've decided to use condoms every time, then you need to use condoms. Don't let your girlfriend talk the two of you into doing something foolish. Consider, what would you advise a girl whose boyfriend "didn't believe in condoms"?
^^well see, shes on a rather high dose of birth control i was talking about doing the pull out method, ASWELL AS the pill.
Pill + pull out. I think it is unnessesary. There is virtualy no increase in birth control. You are aware of the STD issue. If your concern is cumming too soon, pulling out won't change that. It is a common mistake to think that the man's orgasm signals the end of the sex session. You need to make an effort to remain awake and alert after your orgasm. The first two minutes are the toughest, after that its easy. If she hasn't orgasmed, make sure that she does. Maybe try for another erection. (Even if you get erection #2, you might not have orgasm #2). And "even if you can't cut the mustard, you can still lick the jar." If she is on the pill, pulling out doesn't have any BC value.
